Memo to ALL parents, moms included, who are court ordered to pay child support. Yes, I realize that it seems like a lot of money. However, what you obviously fail to realize is that kids need to eat, be clothed, school supplies, go to the doctor/dentist/optometrist, they need a place to live, utilities, have to be transported here there and yonder for various school functions. So please, be an adult and own up to your responsibility. If you agree to something, keep your end of the deal if you expect me to keep mine. If you don't want to be responsible for your child(ren), sign away your parental rights, step out of the picture. Basically step up or step aside. Do what's best for the child instead of what's best for your selfish arse. Grow up, grow a spine, get off your backside and be a parent. Or go the *bleep* away.