Terrible Holiday Weekend

#26
#26
VOLatile said:
Okay, well I have a terrible story for the fine people of VolNation. Based on my weekend.

Okay, so it's pretty short. I got really sick Thursday and Friday, didn't talk to the g/f until Sunday at church. Saturday night I watched my beloved Vols lose. And Sunday I watched my g/f not even place in a freaking pageant... and then this morning, I get an email saying I'm now SINGLE. For reasons I don't even understand. Two years apparently wasted down the drain.

I hate holidays... sorry for wasting your time.
Click to expand...
That sucks. This Bud's for you
 
#29
#29
Wow, this was a bad weekend for you....all the cliches about time healing all certainly apply even though you probably don't feel that way at all right now.
Good luck to you one way or the other with your lady.
 
#31
#31
happier days to come my friend and more positive experiences will develop. stay strong
 
#32
#32
Talking to my friend right now.. definitely making it better. His name's Josh and he's from Mediacom... stupid internet. J/K, my best friend is online right now... he helped me out last time, he'll definitely be there for this time.
 
#33
#33
keep your head up....
I'm sure you're great person...

You need someone more mature and not as flighty
 
#34
#34
Sorry for your luck. Now go have a beer.

Normism's
"Can I draw you a beer, Norm?"
"No, I know what they look like. Just pour me one."

"How about a beer, Norm?"
"Hey I'm high on life, Coach. Of course, beer is my life."

"How's a beer sound, Norm?"
"I dunno. I usually finish them before they get a word in."

"What's up, Norm?"
"Corners of my mouth, Coach."

"What's shaking, Norm?"
"All four cheeks and a couple of chins, Coach."

"Beer, Normie?"
"Uh, Coach, I dunno, I had one this week. Eh, why not, I'm still young."

"Normie, Normie, could this be Vera?"
"With a lot of expensive surgery, maybe."

"What's up, Normie?"
"The temperature under my collar, Coach."

"What would you say to a nice beer, Normie?"
"Going down?"

"What's up, Norm?"
"Everything that's supposed to be."

"What's new, Normie?"
"Terrorists, Sam. They've taken over my stomach. They're demanding beer."

"What'll it be, Normie?"
"Just the usual Coach. I'll have a froth of beer and a snorkel."

"What would you say to a beer, Normie?"
"Daddy wuvs you."

"What'd you like, Normie?"
"A reason to live. Gimme another beer."

"What will you have, Norm?"
"Well, I'm in a gambling mood, Sammy. I'll take a glass of whatever comes out of that tap."
"Oh, looks like beer, Norm."
"Call me Mister Lucky."

"What do you say, Norm?"
"Any cheap, tawdry thing that'll get me a beer."

"What do you say to a beer, Normie?"
"Hiya, sailor. New in town?"

"Whaddya say, Norm?"
"Well, I never met a beer I didn't drink. And down it goes."

"What's your pleasure, Mr. Peterson?"
"Boxer shorts and loose shoes. But I'll settle for a beer."

"Hey Norm, how's the world been treating you?"
"Like a baby treats a diaper."

"Would you like a beer, Mr. Peterson?"
"No, I'd like a dead cat in a glass."

"How's life treating you?"
"It's not, Sammy, but you can!"

"Can I pour you a draft, Mr. Peterson?"
"A little early, isn't it Woody?"
"For a beer?"
"No, for stupid questions."

"What's the story, Mr. Peterson?"
"The Bobbsey twins go to the brewery. Let's cut to the happy ending."

"Hey, Mr. Peterson, there's a cold one waiting for you."
"I know, and if she calls, I'm not here."

"Beer, Norm?"
"Have I gotten that predictable? Good."

"What's going on, Mr. Peterson?"
"A flashing sign in my gut that says, 'Insert beer here.'"

"Hey, Mr. Peterson, Jack Frost nipping at your nose?"
"Yep, now let's get Joe Beer nipping at my liver, huh?"

"What's going on, Mr. Peterson?"
"Another layer for the winter, Wood."

"Whatcha up to Norm?"
"My ideal weight if I were eleven feet tall."

"How's it going, Mr. Peterson?"
"Poor."
"I'm sorry to hear that."
"No, I mean pour."

"How's life treating you, Norm?"
"Like it caught me sleeping with its' wife."

"Women. Can't live with 'em, pass the beer nuts."

"What's going down, Normie?"
"My butt cheeks on that bar stool."

"How's life in the fast lane?"
"Dunno, can't get on the on-ramp."

"Pour you a beer, Mr. Peterson."
"Alright, but stop me at one...make that one-thirty."

"How's it going Mr. Peterson?"
"It's a dog eat dog world, Woody, and I'm wearing Milk-Bone underwear!"

"What's the story, Norm?"
"Boy meets beer. Boy drinks beer. Boy meets another beer."

"How about a beer, Norm?"
"That's that amber sudsy stuff, right? I've heard good things about it!"

"What's going on, Mr. Peterson?"
"The question is what's going in Mr. Peterson. A beer please, Woody."

"What's up, Normie?"
"My nipples, it's freezing out there."

"Hey Norm, ready for the big opening?"
"Yeah. It's right here, you can pour beer down it anytime."
 
#36
#36
oklavol said:
It could have been worse, you could have been married to her.
Click to expand...

Bingo. I just had the same thing happen to me. GF of 3.5 years, announces she is going to move out. Completely out of the blue (as far as I was concerned). We had seriously talked about marriage 3 weeks before. I was completely destroyed. A month and a half later, I meet a new girl, who is hotter, much more fun, and a HUGE football fan (though she is a trojan :sick:). In retrospect I realized I was in love with the person my gf was 3 years ago and that she had changed and I was hoping she would change back and that she was not treating me well at all. She did us both a huge favor by ending it. Give it some time and I bet you will feel the same way. And also. . . just remember how nice it is to get new p.
 
#37
#37
You'll be alright, man. Sorry to hear about your hard times.

Look on the bright side, at least she didn't win the pagent.
 
#38
#38
I thank you all for your advice and personal stories. I'd still like to get back together with her. If I see her in person I know I can win her back. That's what happened last time. She still wants me to take her to her senior homecoming next weekend... I am most certainly going to oblige. I know it's the Florida game and all, but this is more important to me at this time (if all goes well)...

I was genuinely surprised that she didn't win the pageant. This was her third year in a row not placing and I felt terrible. I thought she was for sure going to win, she just has trouble speaking on stage, but is not dumb as hell like that South Carolina chick.
 
#40
#40
Do you think she is just really emotional because she lost?
 
#41
#41
VOLatile said:
I thank you all for your advice and personal stories. I'd still like to get back together with her. If I see her in person I know I can win her back. That's what happened last time. She still wants me to take her to her senior homecoming next weekend... I am most certainly going to oblige. I know it's the Florida game and all, but this is more important to me at this time (if all goes well)...

I was genuinely surprised that she didn't win the pageant. This was her third year in a row not placing and I felt terrible. I thought she was for sure going to win, she just has trouble speaking on stage, but is not dumb as hell like that South Carolina chick.
Click to expand...

If you have to convince her to be with you, it's not worth it. I know it's hard, but nothing is worse than being with someone who doesn't want to be with you 100%. Life is too short. Trust me. I've begged for women to stay and it was always a mistake. She'll respect you more anyway if you don't go to her. And don't take her to the homecoming. That sounds like a recipe for disaster. She stopped getting the right to ask you go places the second she dumped you. End of story. Once again if you hold your ground in the long run she will respect you far more for it. My $.02.
 
#42
#42
droski said:
If you have to convince her to be with you, it's not worth it. I know it's hard, but nothing is worse than being with someone who doesn't want to be with you 100%. Life is too short. Trust me. I've begged for women to stay and it was always a mistake. She'll respect you more anyway if you don't go to her. And don't take her to the homecoming. That sounds like a recipe for disaster. She stopped getting the right to ask you go places the second she dumped you. End of story. Once again if you hold your ground in the long run she will respect you far more for it. My $.02.
Click to expand...

This may be the only thing I have ever seen you post that I agree with. :hi:
 
#43
#43
droski said:
If you have to convince her to be with you, it's not worth it. I know it's hard, but nothing is worse than being with someone who doesn't want to be with you 100%. Life is too short. Trust me. I've begged for women to stay and it was always a mistake. She'll respect you more anyway if you don't go to her. And don't take her to the homecoming. That sounds like a recipe for disaster. She stopped getting the right to ask you go places the second she dumped you. End of story. Once again if you hold your ground in the long run she will respect you far more for it. My $.02.
Click to expand...

Actually, I told her I would still take her because I promised. She hadn't asked, yet. Besides, I already took the day off of work. And we're still going to be good friends, no matter what. We dated for 2+ years, I can't really throw that away. Also, the main reason for her leaving me was because we didn't see each other very often, which I planned on changing. I'll give it a shot, if it doesn't work out then I'll move on.
 
#44
#44
VOLatile said:
Actually, I told her I would still take her because I promised. She hadn't asked, yet. Besides, I already took the day off of work. And we're still going to be good friends, no matter what. We dated for 2+ years, I can't really throw that away. Also, the main reason for her leaving me was because we didn't see each other very often, which I planned on changing. I'll give it a shot, if it doesn't work out then I'll move on.
Click to expand...

Good luck. :good!: If things don't work out, just remember there are a lot of girls out there.
 
#45
#45
droski said:
Good luck. :good!: If things don't work out, just remember there are a lot of girls out there.
Click to expand...

Yeah, following my heart on this one. If it doesn't work, I know of a girl at work that I'm pretty sure likes me. She's pretty good looking, but dumb as hell. Would be a good rebound, per se. I don't want to resort to that, though. She's got a tramp stamp, and the general rule is to stay away from those unless you're looking for a little wear and tear... come to think about it, I don't even know how old she is. She's out of high school, though. Oh well, I'll cross that bridge if I don't find an alternate route.

Wish me luck!
 
#46
#46
An e-mail? Thats cold blooded.

I got dropped over the phone on July 4th, one time.

I feel you brother, I feel you.
 
#47
#47
VOLatile said:
Yeah, following my heart on this one. If it doesn't work, I know of a girl at work that I'm pretty sure likes me. She's pretty good looking, but dumb as hell. Would be a good rebound, per se. I don't want to resort to that, though. She's got a tramp stamp, and the general rule is to stay away from those unless you're looking for a little wear and tear... come to think about it, I don't even know how old she is. She's out of high school, though. Oh well, I'll cross that bridge if I don't find an alternate route.

Wish me luck!
Click to expand...

If you end up single after this just stay that way for a while. You need to get your head back on straight before moving on. A fling is one thing but don't jump right back into having a g/f, you're too young for that stuff.

I will now take off my old man hat. :hi:
 
#48
#48
DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT GO THE FELLOW EMOPLOYEE ROUTE!!! It's the perfect way to ruin a reasonable working environment.
 
#49
#49
Plano Vol said:
DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT GO THE FELLOW EMOPLOYEE ROUTE!!! It's the perfect way to ruin a reasonable working environment.
Click to expand...

100% disagree. There are no hard and fast rules if both are mature enough to handle it.
 
#50
#50
Plano Vol said:
DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT GO THE FELLOW EMOPLOYEE ROUTE!!! It's the perfect way to ruin a reasonable working environment.
Click to expand...

Yeah, after I wrote that I got to thinking about it. I don't know anything about this girl other than she lives in IA somewhere and doesn't have her own transportation. I probably won't go that route. However, K&K is like a breeding ground for relationships... There are several couples there that met there and are married or close to it... I think I'll stay away from coworkers, though. I do go to a community college and there's some potential here, but I'm not really too social at school. :fool:
 
New Posts
You must log in or register to reply here.

Advertisement



Back
Top