Dear "Iveleague",
I'm sure having a threesome with your wife and pet dog named "Spotty", and boasting and posting pictures of such act on Instgram and FB is intellectually stimulating to folks like you. You giant of intellectual acumen! Incest -- marrying your own daughter, for example, I've heard is legal in one state, and maybe that's just a different life style to you too. There's no right or wrong, only having a different life style choice. Of course. I'm disrespectful and ignorant b/c I don't approve nor agree with such an act. While we are at it, sexual act with minor is an expression of intellectual acumen I'm pretty sure. There's a corresponding gene for every one of 'em, scientists claim.
I'm ignorant and hence no match for your intellectual prowess.
But read your bible.
I will pray for you...
What makes you think homosexuality isn't inborn? I'm not here to argue, either (this really isn't the forum for that), but I am curious why anyone would so readily assume homosexuality is a "lifestyle choice" when all credible modern scientific research, as well as the testimonies of countless homosexuals, attests to the exact opposite.
This is not the forum to debate this argument. I will say though that there are also plenty of people who have testimonies where they have turned away from that lifestyle by the power of God and never went back or have the attraction to the same sex. A woman shared her testimony at my church a few weeks ago. She thought that she was born this way and she forced people to accept her as she was. She lust for women and made her appearance to be as a man.She was a lesbian for 20 years and she encountered so many thoughts and battles in her mind because she still felt empty and deep down she didn't feel right. She said one day she was at a breaking point and she told God if you are real and you are the God that people talk about please take away this ungodly lust and desires and change me. She said all of sudden she felt the power of God and begin to breakdown. She gave her life to Christ and was filled with the Holy Spirit. That desire and lust for women no longer existed. This lady is now a minister and her appearance is totally different and I can tell its genuine. She was a guest speaker. Hold your stones. That was her story and testimony. You may believe this or not. People have their opinions and feel the way they feel about homosexuality. All opinions and beliefs should be respected and stones should not be thrown at a person just because they disagree.
Those with red hair can dye their hair black, those who are left-handed can condition themselves to write with their right hands, those born with brown eyes can wear blue contacts, and those with an exceptionally high IQ can play dumb. It still doesn't change who -- or what -- they are. I'm not here to debate the nature of homosexuality, either, nor will I discount what you claim to have been told. What I know, however, is that sexual orientation for the vast, vast majority of people is absolutely not a choice and it is unchangeable; it can be hidden, lied about, and covered up, but it cannot be changed. Regardless of what you believe, it is no cause for anyone to mock, demean, or harass those who are gay or lesbian, and it is especially absurd for anyone to state that they refuse to watch women's basketball because they believe some of those involved to be homosexual.
I don't think society should look at transgender or homosexuality as a sin or character flaw..it is most likely due to a chemical imbalance similar to schizophrenia
In any of my post, I never mocked, demeaned or harassed anyone because of their sexual orientation. I never said I wouldn't watch Women's basketball because there may be players that are gay. So I guess you are referring to someone else. You have your belief on this subject and I have mine. With all due respect let's just leave it at that.
You are more than entitled to your own views and opinions, and your thoughtful and polite tone is appreciated. (And I truly say that with utmost sincerity; I wont blast (to use another posters words) you for holding an opinion which you have respectfully expressed, even though it differs monumentally from my own opinion.) However, I dont really get your comment that you dont agree with homosexuality. To me, thats akin to stating that one doesnt agree with red hair, left-handedness, or genius-level IQs. All are deviations from the norm, but none are inherently wrong or unnatural. To disagree seems a bit out in left field. I think perhaps disapprove of might be a slightly more reasonable term (as in, one disapproves of red hair, left-handedness, or genius-level IQs, or one disapproves of homosexuality). Of course, if anyone told me that he or she disapproved of red hair, left-handedness, or exceptionally high IQs, Id think that was a bit silly . . . just as I think it is a bit silly to disapprove of (or disagree with if that is the term you elect to use) homosexuality. Is it because you mistakenly view homosexuality as simply a behavior, when in reality, sexuality of all stripes is an inborn trait (not unlike hair color, handedness, or IQ)? Help me understand your perspective regarding not agreeing with something that not only exists (with or without any action on the part of the person who is homosexual), but that is just as natural and immutable in its existence as having red hair, being left handed, or possessing an IQ of 160.
I fully agree that the world would be an infinitely better place if people would strive to be kinder and more compassionate to others and, if all else fails (and even if it doesn't), to mind their own business if the issue at hand doesn't involve them.
I never stated nor implied that you had mocked, demeaned, or harassed anyone. In fact, I commented on your polite and respectful tone. However, if you read through this thread, you will see that others who share your same general view are less . . . judicious . . . in their commentary.
It's a sad state we live in that when a news of a female BB player's engagement breaks and we have to wonder whether the partner is a male or female. One of the reasons I stopped watching or supporting WBB pretty much all together nowadays. What would we tell our kids when a tweet of Holly's engagement gets put out one day?
I am glad Tamika is straight. She is a star Lady Vol. I think highlighting Glory and Britney in news articles hurts recruiting. Most parents want their kids to be straight. That said, I am totally convinced one's sexuality is NOT a choice. People are born one way or the other. Before you attack me, know that I voted for marriage rights for everyone, love many homesexual people and have many homesexual friends, don't discriminate against anyone and don't want anyone to be discriminated against. It just I wish it wouldn't be discussed so much on Lady Vol boards. LOL, you're right, here I am discussing it.....