O.K. One by one. Kiffin's and Pruitt's situations just don't stand side-by-side. The only way bama could get him back there is if Saban retired or jumped to the NFL, and then neither Dabo or whomever else Saint Nick had a'waitin' didn't wind up in Tuscaloosa. If that would be 4 or 5 years down the road, then methinks that that's just too far away for us conjecturing. Right?
RE, my being intellectually dishonest (?) regarding my belief that Pruitt was Phil's first choice...from the get-go or at any other time...well, I guess I would be if that were the case, but I never alliterated how Phil ever aligned his candidates (certainly not on the aforementioned post). Do you know? From what I've read, Coach Pru ended up being what's popularly considered to have been Phil's best choice; an opinion about which I certainly agree.
Now, about the heart of the matter---your mental battle over this hate thing you have for your personal demon--- that nasty bammer juggernaut. What's best for our Vols overrides our dislike and deep rooted disdain for that bloody tide, at least for most of us. I'll tell you right now that my blood runs as orange as anyone's, but notice, also, that hate doesn't override reason in my (nor most others') hearts and souls. It's coaching that's in Jeremy Pruitt's DNA, bro; more-so how well he does as opposed to with whom he's doing it. My point is this: Maybe you can reach out to your furthermost boundaries of imagination, then find some twinkling light out there blinking "It's OK. Coach Pru's being UT's HC will end up being his dream job. " GBO!