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TN-POSSUM said:
He was until Saban retired. He loves Ryan Day and them buckeyes now.....View attachment 769890
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False. You’re only damaging your own reputations with such slanderous claims. If you don’t cease and desist, soon everyone will catch on and realize you should command no more attention than abvolfan and Vawlin, the worst of trolls. Proceed at your own risk.
 
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Weezer said:
Sounds like we can all agree that @Adam Sandler is NOT a Vol fan. @frank should ban him.
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Jackcrevol said:
y'all (I dunno how to say this without y'all) all four need a waffle house meet up to waffle stomp one another into oblivion.
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@Glitch and @Weezer wpuld get their sasquatchian arses handed to them with my right hand tied behind my back and all the griddles turned off and chairs screwed to the ground. Not even @TN-POSSUM could save them.
 
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Adam Sandler said:
@Glitch and @Weezer wpuld get their sasquatchian arses handed to them with my right hand tied behind my back and all the griddles turned off and chairs screwed to the ground. Not even @TN-POSSUM could save them.
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Huh!

If @Weezer brings @CousinHorny, you'll change your tune!



*he'll have you humming Purple Rain. 😬
 
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Adam Sandler said:
@Glitch and @Weezer wpuld get their sasquatchian arses handed to them with my right hand tied behind my back and all the griddles turned off and chairs screwed to the ground. Not even @TN-POSSUM could save them.
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I don't think so, Scooter. We are in for a WH rumble and @Weezer and I know how to WH rumble.
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jave36 said:
Teenagers getting married has to have a massive failure rate. They don't even know who they are yet, let alone who they will be and what they will want in a partner when they become an adult.
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I wouldn't advise anyone get married as a teenager. So I don't disagree with your conclusion. But for different reasons. Teenage women don't really need to be having kids and teenage boys don't need to be providing for anyone when they can barely provide for themselves. That would be my reasoning.

But the idea you need to find out "who you are" before you get married is just basic crap, IMO. As far as what you want in a spouse, that should be a short list of things even a teenager should know, assuming they have any reference to a successful marriage.

We live in a very self-centered world. And I think that's led to this "compatibility" frame of mind to relationships. My smallest idiosyncrasies, opinions, habits... All of that is what it is, and I need to find someone to fits into that like a puzzle piece and disrupts my way of doing and thinking as little as possible.

I think that's a more unrealistic strategy that is more prone to fail. It's better to do the opposite. Prioritize the marriage and the principles of marriage first, and let compatibility come naturally.

The reality is that back when people were getting married super young, that's what they did. They didn't need to "find themselves". They became the type of people that were compatible and the marriage was the mold for that.
 
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jave36 said:
Getting married just to have sex has to be a worse sin than just having sex before marriage, right?! lol
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No there is nothing sinful about getting married just to have sex. Stupid and shallow but not sinful.

No man really knows how to appropriately and affectionately love a woman UNTIL he’s married.

“Wait until you know who you are” is weak. Every man changes and certainly every man must let his wife shape his understanding of who he is, because he doesn’t understand it until he gets that the entire complexion of his creator is revealed in both a man (wild, strong, brave) and woman (beautiful, desires to be pursued, nurturing, patient). He gets to be himself when he sees God is in him and his bride.

I wasn’t ready and I was 25 and if I’m honest now I’m still not sure I’m ready lol.
 
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engineerVOL said:
I think more youngsters should get married. No one is ready. You’re raging with hormones and I think that’s the good Lord’s design. Instead we tell our youth to sit down and stay in horny jail and wonder why they’re all addicted to porn. Get married and go at like rabbits I say!!
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engineerVOL said:
No there is nothing sinful about getting married just to have sex. Stupid and shallow but not sinful.

No man really knows how to appropriately and affectionately love a woman UNTIL he’s married.

“Wait until you know who you are” is weak. Every man changes and certainly every man must let his wife shape his understanding of who he is, because he doesn’t understand it until he gets that the entire complexion of his creator is revealed in both a man (wild, strong, brave) and woman (beautiful, desires to be pursued, nurturing, patient). He gets to be himself when he sees God is in him and his bride.

I wasn’t ready and I was 25 and if I’m honest now I’m still not sure I’m ready lol.
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Making of God's precious and intimate sacrament a simple shallow release for lust is not a sin?! I don't agree at all with your opinion of what marriage is if you think it's not a sin to enter into it primarily just for sex. I think it's a horrific sin to make marriage into something like that.

And no, people don't change anywhere near as much between 25 and 30 as they do between 20 and 25. It isn't weak to wait, it's wise. Though wisdom is almost always considered weakness in our culture.

Become an adult, then get married. After 25, who you are is much, much, MUCH more concrete than when you're 20.
 
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engineerVOL said:
No there is nothing sinful about getting married just to have sex. Stupid and shallow but not sinful.

No man really knows how to appropriately and affectionately love a woman UNTIL he’s married.

“Wait until you know who you are” is weak. Every man changes and certainly every man must let his wife shape his understanding of who he is, because he doesn’t understand it until he gets that the entire complexion of his creator is revealed in both a man (wild, strong, brave) and woman (beautiful, desires to be pursued, nurturing, patient). He gets to be himself when he sees God is in him and his bride.

I wasn’t ready and I was 25 and if I’m honest now I’m still not sure I’m ready lol.
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1 Corinthians 7:9 might help. Better to marry than burn with passion......just saying.
 
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Volunteer821 said:
1 Corinthians 7:9 might help. Better to marry than burn with passion......just saying.
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That doesn't mean "the purpose and definition of marriage is sexual relief."

It means, "a proper marriage that is entered into for the right reason of mirroring to each other how God loves us will have the benefit of also helping with burning passions."

The Bible is not meant to be read in partial phrases....
 
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SergeantVol said:
I got married at 19, she was 18. Been married going on 24 years this December with 2 adult children. I think a lot has to do with the maturity level of the individuals and how willing are they to communicate and problem solve with each other. Most of marriage is communication and problem solving.
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Similar. I was 23 and Mrs. Glitch was 24. Been married going on 22 years now. Kids are 20, 18, and 17. We grew together and worked things out together. Marriage is a partnership and we have always treated is as such. She is better suited for some things and I am better suited for others. It is fortunate that we compliment each other's weaknesses with our strengths. God has his hand on us before we knew we needed Him to.
 
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SSVol said:
When teen marriage was more common (most of human history) divorce was far less common. And from my view being married for 40 years, if we all spent less time worrying about what we wanted from our partner and more time on how we could better serve our partner, marriages would be just fine.
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engineerVOL said:
No there is nothing sinful about getting married just to have sex. Stupid and shallow but not sinful.

No man really knows how to appropriately and affectionately love a woman UNTIL he’s married.

“Wait until you know who you are” is weak. Every man changes and certainly every man must let his wife shape his understanding of who he is, because he doesn’t understand it until he gets that the entire complexion of his creator is revealed in both a man (wild, strong, brave) and woman (beautiful, desires to be pursued, nurturing, patient). He gets to be himself when he sees God is in him and his bride.

I wasn’t ready and I was 25 and if I’m honest now I’m still not sure I’m ready lol.
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Too many beta males in our society today. Alpha males lead their families and provide the masculine side of the coin that all children need. They need to know that they have a father that cares enough about them to discipline them and teach them the right way to do things. A woman needs a man to step into his role as leader and protector and provider. They don't need a gigantic kid that does the bare minimum for her and then goes and plays video games while she shoulders the bulk of the family load. Men need to be men and stop being little cry baby little weaklings. (right @Ulysees E. McGill ?)
 
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