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Burger said:
Wth! There's American foster children that need adoption.
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There are kids all over the world that need adoption. It's not a bad thing to adopt a little girl from a country that so devalues girls that people abandon and murder girls in the hopes of having a boy.
 
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WarMachine said:
There are kids all over the world that need adoption. It's not a bad thing to adopt a little girl from a country that so devalues girls that people abandon and murder girls in the hopes of having a boy.
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Most of these people don't live here. Let the Chinese solve their own problems. You could of given some kid here a chance to succeed.
 
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I did. My wife gave birth to two of them. I wanted to demonstrate Christ's love to someone who was different than me. Christ loved me, and I was very different than him. He never sinned, and I was his enemy. Yet he sacrificed himself on my behalf and made me part of his family. I felt compelled to demonstrate the same kind of love for a little girl who is now my daughter. I'd die for her, and I'd fight you over her.
 
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WarMachine said:
I did. My wife gave birth to two of them. I wanted to demonstrate Christ's love to someone who was different than me. Christ loved me, and I was very different than him. He never sinned, and I was his enemy. Yet he sacrificed himself on my behalf and made me part of his family. I felt compelled to demonstrate the same kind of love for a little girl who is now my daughter. I'd die for her, and I'd fight you over her.
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I'm not against adoption, and I wouldn't want to offend your daughter. I actually like Chinese people.
I think the African babies need more help than the Chinese.

I consider my cats my babies. I'm probably not going to have kids, and I love my cats like you love your daughter.
 
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WarMachine said:
I did. My wife gave birth to two of them. I wanted to demonstrate Christ's love to someone who was different than me. Christ loved me, and I was very different than him. He never sinned, and I was his enemy. Yet he sacrificed himself on my behalf and made me part of his family. I felt compelled to demonstrate the same kind of love for a little girl who is now my daughter. I'd die for her, and I'd fight you over her.
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Not gonna lie...brought a tear to my eye.

:salute: WM.
 
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Burger said:
What? The Chinese can solve Chinese problems. Meddling in other countries stuff is why the USA is hated across the world.
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You're talking about someone's child, don't you realize that? This isn't some political nonsense. You're being extremely rude and out of line. So, SHUT THE F UP!
 
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Ron Swanson said:
You're talking about someone's child, don't you realize that? This isn't some political nonsense. You're being extremely rude and out of line. So, SHUT THE F UP!
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I stopped caring about what others think a long time ago. I would of put a bullet in my head already if I did.

I will apologize to warmachine however. He's a nice guy and doesnt deserve the rudeness.
 
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Ron Swanson said:
More with the kill myself talk? Your act is old, Burger.
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Well, its true. If I let all the bullying and rejection get to me, I would of ended things long ago.
Bullying victims either forgive or act bitter. Being nice doesn't pay, so I'll act bitter.

Have you ever had anyone tell you that your ugly, retarded, or that you don't deserve to live? It hurts when ya hear it.
 
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WarMachine said:
Hmm... I disagree. Sometimes there are signs that are often written off as coincidence.

We adopted a little girl from China. Our church conducted a yard sale from one of our members houses. The contributions from the yard sale paid the cost of one of our applications to the federal government ($895 or so) plus $1.78. This was a great encouragement for us that we were doing exactly what God wanted us to do.
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Amen!

My wife and I have been married 6 years and we have always felt called to adopt to grow our family. We wanted to have our own kids first and then adopt later. We tried for two years our way and then started to pray about it and thought maybe we are called to adopt first and then have our own. We started the adoption process last September and was approved in January. We chose domestic and was picked by a birth mom in March and our first will be born in June. We were told the average wait time is 2 years, but our official wait time will be 6 months. We needed to have around $19,000 to cover the expenses. We raised ALL of it in just 8 months.

Right after we were picked by the birth mom we found out that my wife and I were expecting as well. She is due in December. Yes, we are still going through with the adoption. If we would have found out that my wife was pregnant prior to us getting picked by the birth mom, we would have been put on hold for 1 year by our agency.

We can’t explain how we raised close to $19k in that short of time. We can’t explain why we were picked so quickly by a birth mom. We can’t explain how my wife was able to conceive after trying every drug possible for a year to help. Everything happens for a reason. We finally turned more of our attention in trusting in God's timing and doing something we were called to do. One may think it was just a coincidence, but it wasn't. God has had His hands all over this from the beginning.

Sorry for the lengthy post.
 
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#JuanVol said:
Amen!

My wife and I have been married 6 years and we have always felt called to adopt to grow our family. We wanted to have our own kids first and then adopt later. We tried for two years our way and then started to pray about it and thought maybe we are called to adopt first and then have our own. We started the adoption process last September and was approved in January. We chose domestic and was picked by a birth mom in March and our first will be born in June. We were told the average wait time is 2 years, but our official wait time will be 6 months. We needed to have around $19,000 to cover the expenses. We raised ALL of it in just 8 months.

Right after we were picked by the birth mom we found out that my wife and I were expecting as well. She is due in December. Yes, we are still going through with the adoption. If we would have found out that my wife was pregnant prior to us getting picked by the birth mom, we would have been put on hold for 1 year by our agency.

We can’t explain how we raised close to $19k in that short of time. We can’t explain why we were picked so quickly by a birth mom. We can’t explain how my wife was able to conceive after trying every drug possible for a year to help. Everything happens for a reason. We finally turned more of our attention in trusting in God's timing and doing something we were called to do. One may think it was just a coincidence, but it wasn't. God has had His hands all over this from the beginning.

Sorry for the lengthy post.
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Congratulations and may God continue to bless you and your growing family!!
 
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And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

(Romans 8:28 ESV)
 
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Burger said:
Well, its true. If I let all the bullying and rejection get to me, I would of ended things long ago.
Bullying victims either forgive or act bitter. Being nice doesn't pay, so I'll act bitter.

Have you ever had anyone tell you that your ugly, retarded, or that you don't deserve to live? It hurts when ya hear it.
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Maybe you should seek out some professional help and log off of volnation for awhile. This isn't the best outlet for some of the issues you're experiencing.
 
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Burger said:
Well, its true. If I let all the bullying and rejection get to me, I would of ended things long ago.
Bullying victims either forgive or act bitter. Being nice doesn't pay, so I'll act bitter.

Have you ever had anyone tell you that your ugly, retarded, or that you don't deserve to live? It hurts when ya hear it.
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So you think it's O.K. to get on VN and bully people about their children? Your actions are ugly and you're either stupid or the biggest a$$hole in the country. It's obvious that you are the bully and that's the reason you get rejected.
 
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WarMachine said:
Lol... missed your witty posts yesterday. :)
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I have been in a prep course for a Financial Management Certification test all week long. I have been trying to do my normal work on my lunch breaks and haven't had time to post. Now I have NG drill all weekend so I probably won't be right for quite some time. :) I'll do better next week. :hi:
 
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