RDU VOL#14
I’m a Flawed Character
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WE WILL SEE…INDEED.Gust Avrakotos:
A boy is given a horse on his 14th birthday. Everyone in the village says, "Oh how wonderful." But a Zen master who lives in the village says, "We'll see." 'The boy falls off the horse and breaks his foot. Everyone in the village says, "Oh how awful." The Zen master says, "We'll see." The village is thrown into war and all the young men have to go to war. But, because of the broken foot, the boy stays behind. Everyone says, "Oh, how wonderful." The Zen master says, "We'll see."
I think it can go both ways. The stress produced by being yelled at can teach you something. You can't leave people down no matter how you choose to correct them. That's very basic leadership. It was something greatly emphasized with drill instructors when I was in the military years ago. It is often necessary to break someone down and do it quickly. But you build them back up right away. That's when you teach and encourage. Apparently Pruitt broke them down then left them to figure it out for themselves.Aren't we about 20 years past the simpleton "Scream and intimidate" approach? You can get people's attention without just flat out embarrassing them because you can.
Gust Avrakotos:
A boy is given a horse on his 14th birthday. Everyone in the village says, "Oh how wonderful." But a Zen master who lives in the village says, "We'll see." 'The boy falls off the horse and breaks his foot. Everyone in the village says, "Oh how awful." The Zen master says, "We'll see." The village is thrown into war and all the young men have to go to war. But, because of the broken foot, the boy stays behind. Everyone says, "Oh, how wonderful." The Zen master says, "We'll see."
I think there are several versions out there. I took this one from the movie Charlie Wilson's War, one of my favorites.I have told this before. Not in the exact way, I'm curious if Avrakotos is the original or if mine were original. Same story but the Zen master is the boys father in my story and repeats "Who knows what is good and what is bad".
Apples to bowling balls. We could be 3-5 even if there is a legitimate culture change. This is based off the state the program was in. If you are looking for reasons to complain, I am sure you will find them.Everyone loves the culture change until the bullets start flying. Let's wait until we're sitting at 3-5 and see how everyone loves the culture.
Aren't we about 20 years past the simpleton "Scream and intimidate" approach? You can get people's attention without just flat out embarrassing them because you can.
Could be. Though the Pruitt culture is a moot point once he's gone. The decision was being part of a new rebuild going into your JR year or join a well oiled machine for your last 1-2 years. Think they opted for the easy route.If the Pruitt culture was so bad makes you wonder why all the starters transferred out. You would think they would be happy for a coaching change. To me it smells of they may have been the one's taking the payouts, if that turns out to be true or they were Pruitt favorites and got special treatment so the culture wasn't bad for them.
Just saying.....
These two coaches, and staffs, appear to be polar opposites. I expect comments like this from returning players. The thing is, both coaches are held to the same standard - win or you're gone.
It's funny what winning (or lack thereof) does to the culture.
There also a bit of a chicken or the egg thing going on with this topic. Do successful teams win because they have a good culture, or do they win and that is why the culture is good?Exactly, everyone has a fun new culture until that "oh no, we actually suck" moment happens. For Tennessee it usually happens around game 5 or 6 of the first season under a new coach and goes downhill from there. Then the pressure begins to mount on the players as well as the coaching staff. Then the culture is forced to change because things actually get hard. That's when you find out if you have a good culture or not.