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VolsFan4Ever-11 said:
Need some advice.

You guys know the story about the girl I'm in love with and blah blah blah. Well last night she went out for her birthday. One of the girls she went with is my brothers fiancée. My brother is a Marine and is currently overseas. Well my best friend, she text me this morning saying that my brothers fiancée cheated on him while they were out last night.

Should I tell my brother or just wait since I don't really know.
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Do you want joking responses or serious responses? I can go either way(no homo).
 
#8,331
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VolsFan4Ever-11 said:
Need some advice.

You guys know the story about the girl I'm in love with and blah blah blah. Well last night she went out for her birthday. One of the girls she went with is my brothers fiancée. My brother is a Marine and is currently overseas. Well my best friend, she text me this morning saying that my brothers fiancée cheated on him while they were out last night.

Should I tell my brother or just wait since I don't really know.
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Don't tell him... Wait till he gets back and keep proof in case the beetch try's to fool him again.
 
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Find out more. Talk to your friend and see how far things went. When she says cheat, is she talking about sex? Unless she was present when it was going down, how does she know it went that far. If we're talking kissing/hitting on guys, that's not as big a deal if they were both drinking. Not saying it's right, but it's not as bad as sleeping around. Drunk girls do things they regret. Not enough information at this point. But I wouldn't tell your brother while he's deployed. He's under enough stress without knowing this. You can't predict how hearing he's being cheated on would effect his mindset.

Basically, don't tell your brother at this time and try to figure out more. If you talk to his woman about this, suggest that she not come clean til after he gets home as well. I'm assuming he's seeing action? Getting shot at is stressful enough without adding to it.
 
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Weezer said:
Find out more. Talk to your friend and see how far things went. When she says cheat, is she talking about sex? Unless she was present when it was going down, how does she know it went that far. If we're talking kissing/hitting on guys, that's not as big a deal if they were both drinking. Not saying it's right, but it's not as bad as sleeping around. Drunk girls do things they regret. Not enough information at this point. But I wouldn't tell your brother while he's deployed. He's under enough stress without knowing this. You can't predict how hearing he's being cheated on would effect his mindset.

Basically, don't tell your brother at this time and try to figure out more. If you talk to his woman about this, suggest that she not come clean til after he gets home as well. I'm assuming he's seeing action? Getting shot at is stressful enough without adding to it.
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Well said..
 
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Man eff that ish. Don't even get in the middle of it. Let him and that beesh do what it is they wanna do. Ppl kill me stressing over other ppl business.
 
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joeydupree said:
Man eff that ish. Don't even get in the middle of it. Let him and that beesh do what it is they wanna do. Ppl kill me stressing over other ppl business.
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Normally I agree, but family dynamic changes that. I wouldn't/couldn't allow my brother to marry a cheater without telling him. If he chose to marry her anyway, that's his decision, but I couldn't let him walk into it blind.
 
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Oh, I'd tell my bro. But I wouldn't be stressed about it.

Leave it be til he comes home. And get summa dat myself just to confirm.
 
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Weezer said:
Find out more. Talk to your friend and see how far things went. When she says cheat, is she talking about sex? Unless she was present when it was going down, how does she know it went that far. If we're talking kissing/hitting on guys, that's not as big a deal if they were both drinking. Not saying it's right, but it's not as bad as sleeping around. Drunk girls do things they regret. Not enough information at this point. But I wouldn't tell your brother while he's deployed. He's under enough stress without knowing this. You can't predict how hearing he's being cheated on would effect his mindset.

Basically, don't tell your brother at this time and try to figure out more. If you talk to his woman about this, suggest that she not come clean til after he gets home as well. I'm assuming he's seeing action? Getting shot at is stressful enough without adding to it.
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Agreed with Weezy...But u need to find the facts. Bich doesn't sound marriage material to anyone that could do anything when their soon to be married guy is over seas fighting.
 
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Weezer said:
Find out more. Talk to your friend and see how far things went. When she says cheat, is she talking about sex? Unless she was present when it was going down, how does she know it went that far. If we're talking kissing/hitting on guys, that's not as big a deal if they were both drinking. Not saying it's right, but it's not as bad as sleeping around. Drunk girls do things they regret. Not enough information at this point. But I wouldn't tell your brother while he's deployed. He's under enough stress without knowing this. You can't predict how hearing he's being cheated on would effect his mindset.

Basically, don't tell your brother at this time and try to figure out more. If you talk to his woman about this, suggest that she not come clean til after he gets home as well. I'm assuming he's seeing action? Getting shot at is stressful enough without adding to it.
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Pretty great advice Weezer! I'm definitely going to try and figure more stuff out and more facts on it, that's for sure. Yeah I'm sure he has enough going on at the moment, and telling him wouldn't be good. Will definitely be waiting to see what I do.
 
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