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#78
#78
Grizz, you just gotta realize that you won't get all your questions answered. the best thing to do is to just forgive her. you can't move on when you are still connected to her through a grudge.
 
#79
#79
grizz, she ain't doing it to hurt you. she ain't thinking bout you period. cause if she was and truly cared she wouldn't do this ****. take it from someone who has been expendable plenty of times. turn on your **** it all attitude and let her rot in hell if that's what she wants to do. don't make someone a priority in your life when you aren't even an option to them.
 
#82
#82
Indianavol4eva said:
Grizz, you just gotta realize that you won't get all your questions answered. the best thing to do is to just forgive her. you can't move on when you are still connected to her through a grudge.
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I got a million emotions in me right now, idk what to feel or think. Yes I'm mad as hell, I'm hurt, sad I'm just...... Idk
 
#83
#83
Grizz, Kat nailed it regardless of what you or anyone else may think. It's cold hard facts but that's what it amounts to. You're not on her radar. I know.
 
#84
#84
Coach Grizz said:
I got a million emotions in me right now, idk what to feel or think. Yes I'm mad as hell, I'm hurt, sad I'm just...... Idk
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well i promise you that you will feel all of that until you just forgive her. even if she doesnt deserve it, forgiving her will help you start to move on. as long as you mean it.
 
#85
#85
wildnkrazykat said:
grizz, she ain't doing it to hurt you. she ain't thinking bout you period. cause if she was and truly cared she wouldn't do this ****. take it from someone who has been expendable plenty of times. turn on your **** it all attitude and let her rot in hell if that's what she wants to do. don't make someone a priority in your life when you aren't even an option to them.
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Its funny that the way guys treated her she treats me the same way. Why?
 
#86
#86
Coach Grizz said:
Idk, I love her so much my heart won't let me say that. Idk what her deal is
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grizz, you love the fact that she's the first girl you loved (i think that's what you said). she dicked you over when she moved. didn't give a **** what you thought, just up and left, til she got sad/lonely/money ran out/whatever and then uh oh, here she is back, calling texting whatever

then she moved back and used you til she could get on her feet and move to a place where she could **** whoever she wanted, until she felt a little bad about her whorish actions, then run back to you to make her feel special, like a girl should feel. then that got old and she crawled back in bed with another pos.

she ain't worth it. her priority isn't you, it isn't her kids, it's her and whatever selfish desires she has or empty spots she's trying to feel. you gotta let idiots make their own mistakes.
 
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wildnkrazykat said:
grizz, you love the fact that she's the first girl you loved (i think that's what you said). she dicked you over when she moved. didn't give a **** what you thought, just up and left, til she got sad/lonely/money ran out/whatever and then uh oh, here she is back, calling texting whatever

then she moved back and used you til she could get on her feet and move to a place where she could **** whoever she wanted, until she felt a little bad about her whorish actions, then run back to you to make her feel special, like a girl should feel. then that got old and she crawled back in bed with another pos.

she ain't worth it. her priority isn't you, it isn't her kids, it's her and whatever selfish desires she has or empty spots she's trying to feel. you gotta let idiots make their own mistakes.
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This could basically be about my ex. lulz. I'm done with her now, proud of that. We still talk but I don't really care if she dates somebody else.
 
#89
#89
Not even going to pretend to know what we're talking about, but you're wasting your time trying to figure out why someone does what they do. Don't know what was done, but ask yourself, at the end of the day, can I live with it? If you can't, cut ties now. Getting deeper in an attempt to understand only leads to more pain.
 
#90
#90
Slydell said:
Grizz, Kat nailed it regardless of what you or anyone else may think. It's cold hard facts but that's what it amounts to. You're not on her radar. I know.
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Idk why I'm not, why am I playing 2nd fiddle to another guy when I'm the only one that has ever gave a damn about her. Maybe I'm just a damn loser
 
#91
#91
Coach Grizz said:
Its funny that the way guys treated her she treats me the same way. Why?
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idk grizz, can't tell you. can't tell you why my ex said he wanted to spend his life with me, i made him happier than blah blah blah and told me what his grooms cake would look like at our reception and then went and busted all up in an ugly *****. i don't know why, i'll never know why.

but i for ****ing sure know one thing, **** him. and **** your ex-whore too. when you get to thinking about calling her starting remembering she prolly won't answer cause some other dude bustin all up in that.

then get pissed, that's fine. but you have to stop letting her hurt you. otherwise it's just your fault.
 
#92
#92
Coach Grizz said:
Idk why I'm not, why am I playing 2nd fiddle to another guy when I'm the only one that has ever gave a damn about her. Maybe I'm just a damn loser
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I thought this about myself for a long time. Gotta realize that even though you love her, she's not right for you. Everybody has a plan, this is just another step in that plan to make you stronger and lead you to the right woman. jmo
 
#93
#93
Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel grizz. Its gonna take time for your heart to heal. I hope you find a great woman someday. Someone who will appreciate and love you with all her heart and soul.
 
#94
#94
God, I just heard my neighbors having sex... Good lord they are fat and hideous.... I want to puke... Even though she actually sounded hot.... She's fat and ugly
 
#98
#98
Coach Grizz said:
Idk why I'm not, why am I playing 2nd fiddle to another guy when I'm the only one that has ever gave a damn about her. Maybe I'm just a damn loser
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you're not a loser, you're the kinda guy that any sane woman would love to have. you seem to be caring and sweet and loving, kind and funny, you work hard to provide for yourself and others and you go out of your way to do what's needed.

you're too good for her. you have to ****ing browbeat yourself through this, trust me. you have to mentally scream at yourself when you're about to break and remind yourself that when you needed her someone else was tapping that and she didn't care about you. even now i've got a wall, when i think about him, it's like it's about 2 inches below my sternum and i feel myself push him down and out of my system sometimes. you gotta do the same thing. mentally take control of the situation. listen to the mind, not the heart. the heart will **** you over
 
#100
#100
heartvols said:
Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel grizz. Its gonna take time for your heart to heal. I hope you find a great woman someday. Someone who will appreciate and love you with all her heart and soul.
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I wish she felt that way. I'm just gonna give up, I'm better off being a lonely hermit. That way I won't get hurt.
 
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