he's got it in his mind i'm just gonna quit work, never look for another job and idk what else. so everytime i talk about being unhappy at work (i still go, do my job and act like nothing is wrong, but i'm burned out right now) or moving/starting school he starts ranting and raving about how i can't just up and quit work w/out a back-up plan. it's just starting to hurt my feelings.