You seem pre-disposed to read more sinister intent into my original reply than was intended. I am happy to apologize if I have unfairly impugned anyone's character. I still think that people who aren't bigots do care about bigoted language. I still think that if you do and say bigoted stuff repeatedly, then you are a bigot.
I can't understand the logic of your second question. Why would a single vote make you a bigot? Are you saying the only criteria you used to judge Trump was his adultery? I guess I am a bigot by that logic too, then. I have not voted for several candidates for this reason.
To bring this back around: if Mayor Pete cheats on his husband and acts like turd about it like Trump or Clinton, then I would think he's morally unqualified to lead the country. No difference really.
If you can't keep that vow, why would I trust your vow to uphold the Constitution? What am I missing?