OWH's Topic That Will Never Die XXIII

#11,403
#11,403
Just had one of those dad moments. My daughter and her "friend" broke up. They've been having a few issues, and I guess they couldn't get past it. I know they're young and it's puppy love, but when you're at that age, it's the whole world. My wife was trying to talk to her for comfort, but told me I was better at this stuff. I went and sit beside her on the bed and just hugged her, and she started sobbing. She cares about him, but he has some jealousy issues that they can't seem to get past. I gotta be honest, she made me cry. Ain't nothing in the world hurts your heart like seeing your baby hurting. My oldest never got really serious with anyone, worried about her "friend" right now 😆, but these moments are part of it. My wife didn't understand why she broke down with me, but not her. I told her sometimes just holding or hugging someone says more than we can with our mouth.
 
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#11,404
joevol33 said:
Just had one of those dad moments. My daughter and her "friend" broke up. They've been having a few issues, and I guess they couldn't get past it. I know they're young and it's puppy love, but when you're at that age, it's the whole world. My wife was trying to talk to her for comfort, but told me I was better at this stuff. I went and sit beside her on the bed and just hugged her, and she started sobbing. She cares about him, but he has some jealousy issues that they can't seem to get past. I gotta be honest, she made me cry. Ain't nothing in the world hurts your heart like seeing your baby hurting. My oldest never got really serious with anyone, worried about her "friend" right now 😆, but these moments are part of it. My wife didn't understand why she broke down with me, but not her. I told her sometimes just holding or hugging someone says more than we can with our mouth.
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She probably thinks you can handle her unloading on you easier than Tiff could. She still wants to be strong for her momma, even when she's hurting, and not give her momma any more to deal with.
 
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vollygirl said:
She probably thinks you can handle her unloading on you easier than Tiff could. She still wants to be strong for her momma, even when she's hurting, and not give her momma any more to deal with.
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You're probably right.
 
#11,409
#11,409
joevol33 said:
Just had one of those dad moments. My daughter and her "friend" broke up. They've been having a few issues, and I guess they couldn't get past it. I know they're young and it's puppy love, but when you're at that age, it's the whole world. My wife was trying to talk to her for comfort, but told me I was better at this stuff. I went and sit beside her on the bed and just hugged her, and she started sobbing. She cares about him, but he has some jealousy issues that they can't seem to get past. I gotta be honest, she made me cry. Ain't nothing in the world hurts your heart like seeing your baby hurting. My oldest never got really serious with anyone, worried about her "friend" right now 😆, but these moments are part of it. My wife didn't understand why she broke down with me, but not her. I told her sometimes just holding or hugging someone says more than we can with our mouth.
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Is Tiffany feeling okay?
 
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#11,411
volwindy said:
Is Tiffany feeling okay?
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Her infection is back. She got really discouraged a few days ago, had me upset as well. She just got a call about going to see a new Dr for help, so we'll see. I actually dreamed last night that she died, wasn't gonna post about it, but might as well. I woke up freaking out. I have weird dreams, but hate those like that.
 
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#11,415
VolNExile said:
Nope. Cold front is still coming through, very slowly. It's still 40 degrees here.

Forecast is for snow beginning around 1, but temps will still be 35-36, so we'll see if anything actually happens.
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They were saying at 5 this morning here, tgen changed it to between 9-10.
 
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#11,416
I did also dream last night that we were going back to Idaho, and spent a whole day driving around Tennessee. Was in the northeastern corner in some town eating at a truck stop. Then went through Harriman to see a friend of mine who recently opened an antique shop. I have weird dreams😂
 
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joevol33 said:
Her infection is back. She got really discouraged a few days ago, had me upset as well. She just got a call about going to see a new Dr for help, so we'll see. I actually dreamed last night that she died, wasn't gonna post about it, but might as well. I woke up freaking out. I have weird dreams, but hate those like that.
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Those kinds of dreams are awful.

When does she see the doc?
 
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#11,419
joevol33 said:
Her infection is back. She got really discouraged a few days ago, had me upset as well. She just got a call about going to see a new Dr for help, so we'll see. I actually dreamed last night that she died, wasn't gonna post about it, but might as well. I woke up freaking out. I have weird dreams, but hate those like that.
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I was joking, but thanks for the explanation :p It's always good to go and get a second or third opinion. Do you tell her about these dreams?
 
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#11,420
joevol33 said:
I did also dream last night that we were going back to Idaho, and spent a whole day driving around Tennessee. Was in the northeastern corner in some town eating at a truck stop. Then went through Harriman to see a friend of mine who recently opened an antique shop. I have weird dreams😂
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Did you get potatoes?
 
#11,423
#11,423
volwindy said:
I was joking, but thanks for the explanation :p It's always good to go and get a second or third opinion. Do you tell her about these dreams?
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I've surprisingly only ever had a few bad ones about her, but I never have told her. Don't even tell her if I have a bad dream about the girls except once. That's because I was literally sobbing in my sleep, and it woke her up. I had dreamed the oldest died, and it was so real. It seriously took me a few minutes to calm down and realize it was a dream.
 
#11,425
#11,425
This does remibd me of something for you ladies!! My wife isn't a jealous type, she knows I'd never do anything, and that I literally talk to everyone. That said, if she dreams something about me cheating in a dream, then she wakes up mad😄. Girls, we can't help what you dream!!😂
 
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