Luke 16-18
The hardest thing a Christian has ever been instructed to do is forgive. Although it is the kindness of God that we most need, it seems as though it’s the singular kindness of God that we have been most unable to grasp. It is difficult because it is so much easier to hold onto a grudge or unforgiveness than to humble ourselves and recognize that when we forgive others, we are reflecting Christ-like character to them. We (I) struggle to minimize myself in my hurt and magnify God through the forgiveness I am commanded to give. When we forgive, we crucify our own flesh and point others to the Christ they may not know.
This is the struggle the disciples were facing, when after Christ commands them to forgive their brother, Jesus states, “And if he sins against you seven times a day, and returns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ forgive him (v. 4, NASB).” Immediately after Jesus says this, the apostles say, “Increase our faith (v. 5)!” They didn’t say this when they saw Jesus perform miracles of healing. They didn’t say this when they saw Jesus perform miracles of provision. They didn’t even say this during Christ’s transfiguration. It appears all of this was easier to grasp than forgiveness. However difficult, it is our Christian responsibility. Why?
I once heard a story about one of the first missionaries into Alberta, Canada. When he arrived there, the Cree Indian chief, Maskepetoon, vehemently opposed him. However, Maskepetoon ultimately accepted the gospel and received Christ. Shortly after his conversion, a member of the Blackfoot tribe killed is father. Maskepetoon rode into the village and demanded that the person responsible be brought before him. Surprisingly, when the man was brought before him, Maskepetoon had this to say, “You have killed my father, so now you must be my father. You shall ride my best horse and wear my best clothes.” In utter remorse and amazement his enemy responded, “My son, now you have killed me!” What he meant was that Maskepetoon’s own kindness and forgiveness had melted the hate in his own heart. And ultimately, it was reported that this man too received Christ.
This story highlights the greatest reason why we should be willing to forgive those who bring injustice upon us: it reflects the love (and example) of Jesus to them. In so doing, it brings them closer to a point of repentance. I encourage you, if you struggle with unforgiveness, ask God to soften your heart towards the person who has offended you. It is better to dig it out at the root than to allow it to take root and create bitterness in you.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, I thank you for your Word
this morning. I find it both challenging and encouraging. I ask that you give me the ability to forgive those that might spitefully use me or who speaks ill against me. Humble me to recognize that it’s not about me but that it’s about you. Allow me to reflect you in my own time of offense so that those around me might be drawn closer to you because of my response to it. I trust that you hear my prayer and I trust that you will, as the apostles have asked of Jesus, “increase my faith” in this area. I thank you again, in Jesus’ name, Amen.