Here is only conclusion I have came to:
1. The Nega-Grudes will never believe anything posted that is positive concerning Gruden to UT... They will always believe any poster who agrees that Gruden will never coach in college under any circumstance.... If those who have information that is pro Gruden they will always discount it and do all they can to discredit it, and if they don't post any information it is always because they are hiding.... Never be a Nega-Grude
2. The All-Grudes camp-will never accept any information that would question the validity of their hopes that Gruden will become the next head coach at UT, They will immediately discredit any poster who says any thing negative concerning Gruden... Some make outlandish claims about posters who have a good, solid and positive record on VN and seek to discredit them as simply bringing what their position to this forum. Never be a All Grude
3. I want to be a Pro-Grude I think the truth lays somewhere in between these two extremes .... both sides have some good points and bring up reasonable arguments and deserve to be looked at with an open mind.... There are of course the crazys on both sides that no one should pay attention to. I am a Pro-Grude because of what I think he could do for this football team and this University, I have high hopes that we somehow pull this off... Yet I do NOT know for 100% and am convinced that neither does anyone else. I will simply look at both sides, try to keep my mind open and be willing to hear everyone's opinion....
I will NOT trust ANYONE who say 100% it will happen or 0% that it will happen, both are extremes imho.... my 2 cents