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She had a little breakdown. She's not feeling good, stressed about having to go to the hospital every day, and work around other appointments. She's just tired of all of it, and I can understand. These kinda moments are what gets to me. I feel helpless, it makes me angry that I can't just fix things, and it's hard to hold that in. She's sensitive, and I'm afraid saying something the wrong way will make her think I'm mad at her or something. I'm just mad, and I'm not a good talker when I'm really mad. It's just frustrating, I want to do something, but can't.
 
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I don't worry that she'd ever hurt herself, but I do worry that she'd quit fighting. I've seen people give up mentally, and fade away quickly in their health. It may be a coincidence, but I feel like it has a lot to do with it.
 
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joevol33 said:
I don't worry that she'd ever hurt herself, but I do worry that she'd quit fighting. I've seen people give up mentally, and fade away quickly in their health. It may be a coincidence, but I feel like it has a lot to do with it.
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Hang in there, Joe. We're all pulling for you and Tiffany and the girls. Hope Tiffany feels better about things soon.
 
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joevol33 said:
I don't worry that she'd ever hurt herself, but I do worry that she'd quit fighting. I've seen people give up mentally, and fade away quickly in their health. It may be a coincidence, but I feel like it has a lot to do with it.
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maybe ask the pastor or his wife to take her to lunch and talk with her one day when you got to work - but youre right about giving up like that -- in a way I think my dad did that
 
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I haven't had to deal with what you've had to Joe so I can't say I understand. I tried to put myself in your position mentally and I didn't like it. From here it seems you're writing a manual on how best to deal with it, so I'll just continue praying for her and you and the kids.

My only advice or suggestions is keep on doing exactly what you're doing.
 
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Thanks guys. As frustrated as i get about it, I can't imagine how she feels. I mean, I see the effects on her, but her stress plus the physical issues, and I understand her having a breakdown.
 
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joevol33 said:
She had a little breakdown. She's not feeling good, stressed about having to go to the hospital every day, and work around other appointments. She's just tired of all of it, and I can understand. These kinda moments are what gets to me. I feel helpless, it makes me angry that I can't just fix things, and it's hard to hold that in. She's sensitive, and I'm afraid saying something the wrong way will make her think I'm mad at her or something. I'm just mad, and I'm not a good talker when I'm really mad. It's just frustrating, I want to do something, but can't.
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🙏🙏🙏
 
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joevol33 said:
She had a little breakdown. She's not feeling good, stressed about having to go to the hospital every day, and work around other appointments. She's just tired of all of it, and I can understand. These kinda moments are what gets to me. I feel helpless, it makes me angry that I can't just fix things, and it's hard to hold that in. She's sensitive, and I'm afraid saying something the wrong way will make her think I'm mad at her or something. I'm just mad, and I'm not a good talker when I'm really mad. It's just frustrating, I want to do something, but can't.
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joe, do you mind showing your phone to Tiffany?
Tiffany, it’s perfectly normal to get discouraged after all you’ve been through. I went through that when I had to go to all the doctor’s appointments and subsequent surgery, during my cancer scare. I was just tired of it and wanted everything to get back to normal, especially for my family, because I didn’t know how to make them feel better about what was happening and it wasn’t fair to them. From everything joe has posted about you, you are a strong wife, mother and person. Take the time to feel what you need to, it is normal. I’ll shut up, but firmly believe you have this.
 
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Orangeredblooded said:
joe, do you mind showing your phone to Tiffany?
Tiffany, it’s perfectly normal to get discouraged after all you’ve been through. I went through that when I had to go to all the doctor’s appointments and subsequent surgery, during my cancer scare. I was just tired of it and wanted everything to get back to normal, especially for my family, because I didn’t know how to make them feel better about what was happening and it wasn’t fair to them. From everything joe has posted about you, you are a strong wife, mother and person. Take the time to feel what you need to, it is normal. I’ll shut up, but firmly believe you have this.
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She said thank you very much, and to everyone for praying
 
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