you need to realize that "led" isn't actually "leading" most of the time. its a meaningless term the writers use to drive up interest in the story.
so often they will translate, "the team talking to me the most" as "leads". it literally could be he spends the most time talking with them because they reach out the most, not because he likes them the most. or how often do we see the team who "leads" change with each visit a guy takes? Its all about driving interest in the story, rather than presenting factual information.
unless there is a direct quote from the player himself its absolutely meaningless.
if the player uses it before taking any visits, its meaningless.
if the player only says it months before commitment, its meaningless to bring up when the commitment finally happens.