I think the punishment should fall primarily on the coach, and not on the fans and the program.  Let the wrongdoer suffer the most.
That said, you all are certainly being a little hard on yourselves and Pearl.  I don't care what the punishment is from the NCAA.  The contact rules are a little silly, and in the great moral scheme of things, this is nothing but a little boo boo.  Come on, this is like speeding.  Using burner phones to call recruits is actually very amusing.  Lying to the NCAA about it?  Well, what else would a normal person do but make that second boo boo?  
I hope Pearl does coach at TN for the rest of his life.  He's a great foe.  He's very competitive and makes it all more fun.  He was a lying, cheating, dirty rotten SOB that deserved to rot in a maggot-infested he** before this happened, and nothing has changed.  grin.  
He**, I hope to see him doing some Verizon commercials soon!
Just move on from this, nobody cares that much, and it certainly does not reflect on fans personally.