While somewhat I agree with the overall sentiment of what you are saying, it is just a game, the kids playing and men coaching determine the true outcomes not us, so sit back and enjoy.
However, your are forgetting the underlying concept of a fan. Fan is short for fanatic.
We will never stop the anticipation of a new season, new recruits and coaches, returning players and coaches, what will the record be, who on our schedule is beatable or should be beatable. That's what makes us fans. If we just sat back and never did anything until comment until after the game is played, well, where's the fun in that?
Anticipation, speculation and mixed in with all that comes with the emotional ups and downs of the season and the reflection of seasons past - These are what makes the game what it is and our fan base what it is.
Well made points, BogeyVol. (I'll extend grace to a fellow VFL and assume you're a Humphrey Bogart fan, rather than a golfer.)
I identify with being a fanatic, if by that we mean devouring every post-practice report, following recruiting, lurking on several forums, and trying to find out which receivers and RBs are showing up voluntarily by what time each summer morning. But being fanatics--even admittedly--takes us right up to the borderlines of psycho-questionable territory. I'm sure I'll catch cyber-hell for making this statement, but I think there's an important line being crossed when we emotionally anticipate or predict how the season will play out. I think it's ultimately self-defeating for the fan, since--even if you're ultimately proven correct--you're most likely to FEEL wrong and frustrated at least half the quarters of the season, and for
days after any unanticipated loss.
Now that's each person's business, what they choose. And admittedly, I'm no online counselor, but I've played one in real life. Attaching emotional expectations to future events over which we have no control is a set up for needless disappointment, frustration, or anger. Sure, it gets vented at players and coaches who never have to read or hear it. But more importantly, it splashes out onto people in the real world, like family.
I understand that sometimes when we say how many wins we should get this season, what we're really stating is an opinion of "if we and each team we play is at full strength, and we reach our reasonable potential as a team, here's who I think we would beat." Nothing wrong with that.
But waaaay too many times I see forecast-foiled posters ranting vehemently from Saturday night through Wednesday morning, blindly blaming everyone and the water boy, because his/her narrative didn't play out the way they expected. Is there really any
fun in being that frustrated, that disappointed?
I encourage everyone to be fanatics about wearing the orange, culling and sharing information, following the latest developments, getting to know and supporting the players and staff. And--especially if you're blessed to be in Neyland on a Saturday--to
yell like crazed Vikings and Visigoths when we're on defense! Cheering proactively (not just when we're personally pleased with the results on the field) is the only time we really have some influence on the outcome of a game.
But if you're only trying to "feel" the excitement of the season before it begins... well, that's just self-medicating your way into a neurotic fanatasy. I'm saying keep it together, Vol Nation. Stay in the real world, wait impatiently for football to begin (which is it's own delicious feeling that I've enjoyed every summer since 1963), and then enjoy being fanatics together in real time. Let Nostradamus rest in peace, and
embrace your inner-Visigoth!