In the hospital with a Vol player

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GERALD JONES 4 HEISMAN said:
Hey buddy, been there done that. My son was born at 25 weeks and for those that dont know, 40 is full term. He was 1lb 6oz. He spent 75 days in the NICU at UT Medical Center and still to this day don't know how we made it without loosing our minds. Who cares what color we wear,all football aside.. if you need anything private message me and ill give you my number, sometimes talking to someone who has been there before helps. If you want to see him today, check him out on Facebook. My name is Phillip Troutman....ill accept you as a friend. He is a rockstar and your son will be one too!
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My twins were born at 25 weeks and weighed well under 2 lbs as well. Painful, but amazing process.
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#27
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Birmingham, my heart is with your family and especially your baby. I have a 2 year-old and I just can't imagine the heartache you're experiencing. I will pray for you and your family and please keep us updated!
 
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Birmingham said:
25 weeks...!!! unreal. I don't know how you did it. Probably the same way each parent deals with heartache with their children in danger... by the grace of God the day ends and the next one begins with him or her still here.

As for Elijah. Sarah and I just went to see him and we held our son for the very first time. It killed me to let him go. We needed this tonight.
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When our first was born we had to take her back for the jaundice lights. I thought that was difficult...until my twins spent 30 days in the NICU.

Leaving your child/children at the hospital isn't easy, but know that they are in terrific hands. I know several have offered, but feel free to PM me if you have any questions at all. Your family will be in our prayers.
 
#29
#29
I am praying for your son, Birmingham! I hope that God will touch not only his life but the lives of you and your wife.
 
#30
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Just please be a good dad, and raise your kid to be a courteous Alabama fan. Actually, since he was born next door to a Vol, shouldn't he be raised to pull for Tennessee? Do the right thing!!

Seriously though, congrats.
 
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Birmingham said:
I just got home from a 4 day stay at the hospital with my wife who gave birth to our son. next door to us for 2 of those days was a young man with enough Vol athletic department garb to live off of for about a month. Every article of clothing was always orange and some defined "football" as the sport he was involved in. He with certainty had the football look to him, very determined, focused and a football build. He looked like a very nice young man and his son was cute as hell. His door asked for no visitors so I assumed while in the hallway he'd appreciate the same courtesy.

Congratulations whoever you were.
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Congrats to both of you.
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#32
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Birmingham - My thoughts and prayers are with You, Sarah, and the future Middle Linebacker at UT Elijah!

It sounds like you have a great support group here of people who have endured similar situations. I was blessed with a healthy, albeit chunky, little guy myself. I can't imagine going through what you and many on here have gone through.

Anyone care to share a photo of their little guys/gals who have gone through this? Would like to see.
 
#33
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Prayers to you and your little one. My grandson spent over three months in NICU and had numerous other hospitalizations. Prayers and strong coffee will get you through. What a blessing a child is! All of you hold your children a little closer...
 
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Birmingham said:
I just got home from a 4 day stay at the hospital with my wife who gave birth to our son. next door to us for 2 of those days was a young man with enough Vol athletic department garb to live off of for about a month. Every article of clothing was always orange and some defined "football" as the sport he was involved in. He with certainty had the football look to him, very determined, focused and a football build. He looked like a very nice young man and his son was cute as hell. His door asked for no visitors so I assumed while in the hallway he'd appreciate the same courtesy.

Congratulations whoever you were.
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Congrats to you and your wife. Prayers are out for your family and I hope your son comes home soon happy and healthy!!!!!
 
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Birmingham said:
As for Elijah. Sarah and I just went to see him and we held our son for the very first time. It killed me to let him go. We needed this tonight.
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Take each victory and take the next step! It sounds like this was a good day and something to take home and smile about! Glad to hear that you were able to hold your son now kiss your wife, hold your other child tight and smile about this great step!
 
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BigPapaVol said:
My twins were there for about 100 days. Incredible care. PM me if you have questions.
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2nd that. My son was in the NICU because he had to have heart surgery. I hope your son is doing well and gets to come home soon.
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Congrats on the birth of the son. I will be praying for his recovery in the coming days from deep in gator country. Please keep us updated on his condition.
 
#38
#38
Prayers sent for the healthy growth and development of your son. I'd be happy to offer advice if needed...
 
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Birmingham said:
25 weeks...!!! unreal. I don't know how you did it. Probably the same way each parent deals with heartache with their children in danger... by the grace of God the day ends and the next one begins with him or her still here.

As for Elijah. Sarah and I just went to see him and we held our son for the very first time. It killed me to let him go. We needed this tonight.
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My word. I shed a tear when i read that. You're a strong dad and sounds like you have a wonderful family. Being a dad is the best! I will say a prayer God comforts you and your family....I will ask Him to let you bring lil' man home soon! :good!:
 
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Birmingham said:
25 weeks...!!! unreal. I don't know how you did it. Probably the same way each parent deals with heartache with their children in danger... by the grace of God the day ends and the next one begins with him or her still here.

As for Elijah. Sarah and I just went to see him and we held our son for the very first time. It killed me to let him go. We needed this tonight.
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Yes sir it is. It will only make you guys stronger and appreciate more as he gets older. Just remember God wont give us a mountain we cant climb. Pretty soon, you will look back on these days and smile...take care man
 
#41
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Congrats Birmingham, everyday brings something new and wonderous. I pray the lord watches over your family and sends your son home to you soon.
 
#42
#42
Good luck, Bham!

VN's thoughts and prayers are with you.

Remember us in 17 years when he asks for your permission to play for UT. :eek:k:
 
#43
#43
Pretty amazing that a thread from a rival fan reached 3 pages of nothing but encouraging words and sent prayers. Really means a lot to me and my family. This thread speaks volumes about the members of this forum.
 
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Birmingham said:
Pretty amazing that a thread from a rival fan reached 3 pages of nothing but encouraging words and sent prayers. Really means a lot to me and my family. This thread speaks volumes about the members of this forum.
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And we're serious. Ribbing rivals is one thing and do it a lot, but the same passion for my team shows up in my compassion for people, especially kids. Having been through a tremendous fight with mine, I can empathize and want to help.

Keep us posted.
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#45
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Birmingham said:
25 weeks...!!! unreal. I don't know how you did it. Probably the same way each parent deals with heartache with their children in danger... by the grace of God the day ends and the next one begins with him or her still here.

As for Elijah. Sarah and I just went to see him and we held our son for the very first time. It killed me to let him go. We needed this tonight.
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I'm really glad you got to feel what its like to hold your own son. He will be home soon and we'll all be rooting for you guys.
 
#46
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VOLveeta said:
We are all on the same team when it comes to prayer for our young ones. You, my stranger internet friend, have my personal heartfelt prayers, for your young leader of tomorrow. :yes:
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Congrats Birmingham and I pray all works out and welcome to the VN Veeta
 
#47
#47
Congratulations on your son. Know our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
 
#48
#48
A good friend of mine at work told me the simplest truth about kids. He used to say, "Man, there ain't nothing like 'em." I didn't understand until I had one of my own. You will too. My prayers and best wishes to you and the little Bammer. May our young'uns one day be in Neyland or B-D yelling insults at one another. That is unless he rejects the family loyalties and comes over from the dark side.:haha_oh:
 
#50
#50
Wow, I don’t know why it took me so long to open this thread. My son was born a few weeks premature. In addition to other problems, he had a hole in a lung and was immediately taken to NICU. In addition to the fear and concern I had for my son, it broke my heart every time the nurses brought the baby’s to visit their mothers and my wife watched as other mothers held their children. I would take that time to wheel her down to visit our son who was hooked up to every machine imaginable. All we could do was stare from outside the clear plastic tent that covered his unit. The nurses are angels and after a few weeks he was able to leave the hospital. 20+ years later he has graduated from UT and lives a happy healthy normal life.

My prayers have been sent for you and your family.
 
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