Guys, I need some honest help..

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#201
AFL2008 said:
In my experience, someone that loves you for who you are never does that to you unless something else is wrong.

Ive been in many relationships, and i eventually married my wife because we could be 100% honest with each other and we didn't ever have to be fake.

When you have to start making huge sacrifices of the things nearest and dearest to your heart just to prove that you love someone, you have a problem.

Sacrifices are a part of relationships. But there are certain things that as a couple, you should know not to mess with unless its really important.
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Heeeeey, shouldn't you be heading for your shocker??? Woudn't want you to be late :)
J/K. Be careful heading over and have some seriously limited fun!!!
 
#202
#202
GmanTN said:
Lots of guys out there are not UT fans and will have no problem showing your wife a good time. Sometimes you need to put things in perspective by being miserable because if momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy.
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So what!...Its FOOTBALL TIME in Tennessee! He has the same option after the game if she wants to be a skank.
 
#204
#204
My god this thread has made me so disappointed. Has society turned all men into spineless beings that are scared of their irrational wives??

First of all, you wife can go shopping 351 days of the year with you as college football is on only like 14-15 days of the year.

2nd, she knows it's very important to you and comes on rarely yet she yells at you because you don't wanna do an activity with her that she can do 24/7 365 days a year with you??

And you actually feel like you are doing something wrong???

Your wife is the one that is being very mean, irrational, and selfish. She should be the one disappointed in herself. Let her know how selfish, unreasonable, and pathetic she is acting.
 
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secund2nun said:
My god this thread has made me so disappointed. Has society turned all men into spineless beings that are scared of their irrational wives??

First of all, you wife can go shopping 351 days of the year with you as college football is on only like 14-15 days of the year.

2nd, she knows it's very important to you and comes on rarely yet she yells at you because you don't wanna do an activity with her that she can do 24/7 365 days a year with you??

And you actually feel like you are doing something wrong???

Your wife is the one that is being very mean, irrational, and selfish. She should be the one disappointed in herself. Let her know how selfish, unreasonable, and pathetic she is acting.
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"Spot on" first post...Welcome aboard!:good!:
 
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#206
volmanic said:
I'm taking her shopping next weekend!!! I mean all this we're going to do, and then she is going to the game with me. Her first Vol game. Maybe that will change her. She hates football, and is so bored with it watching it on TV. I'm screwed, she has got to be out of her mind to think that Football is more important to her. I have been a HUGE vol fan all of my life. She knew this before she married me, so what cant she freaking understand?
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Of course she knows it AND understands it. Man up. There's nothing you can do. PERIOD. If you'd have gone she'd think you were a wussy. If you don't, then she's pissed. Tell her you love her, but if these childish-arse games are part of the package it may not be that SHE is ready. Fact is, that's the truth!!
 
#211
#211
I'm telling you..

If it were not for that thing between their legs, there would be a bounty out on every woman's head.
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#212
#212
Im from Jackson and Madison County is covered with hot women! You see a lot of average looking guys with gourgeous women there.
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yes.. very pretty women in that area!

I always thought a Sullivan co. license plate was a good indicator around campus too...
 
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#215
secund2nun said:
My god this thread has made me so disappointed. Has society turned all men into spineless beings that are scared of their irrational wives??

First of all, you wife can go shopping 351 days of the year with you as college football is on only like 14-15 days of the year.

2nd, she knows it's very important to you and comes on rarely yet she yells at you because you don't wanna do an activity with her that she can do 24/7 365 days a year with you??

And you actually feel like you are doing something wrong???

Your wife is the one that is being very mean, irrational, and selfish. She should be the one disappointed in herself. Let her know how selfish, unreasonable, and pathetic she is acting.
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Secund2nun doesn't say much...but when he does....HOLLA!!!!
 
#217
#217
I cannot offer any advice since I never had to deal with that issue in my marriage.

My wife loves sports as much or more than I do especially UT.
:)
 
#219
#219
There are 2 possibilities at play here:

1. You neglecting her and she just wants some attention. When was the last time you did some thing with her? If it's been a while, you've screwed up and you should do this for her.

2. She is a prima donna and wants to see what is more important to you football or her. I wouldn't marry a girl like this. I don't go for tests or head games, so if you think this is the case, you must stand your ground.
 
#220
#220
BigPapaVol said:
Start early. Turn the same argument on her and act indignant that she would deign to go shopping and not share this nearly religious experience with you.
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my sentiments exactly, but you should have asked her to watch the game with you yesterday or earlier, saying that the game wouldn't be as good if she's not there to watch it with you........that way if she goes shopping instead she is the one not willing to spend time with you
 
#221
#221
lawgator1 said:
At four months, its a control thing. She doesn't really want you to go shopping, so much as she wants you to kowtow to the demand.

Incidentally, I do not do divorce law, but am willing to learn.
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Amen to that.

LG, you will make a killing.
 
#222
#222
That's why I start talking about the games I'm really looking forward to watching a week in advance. That way, she knows which ones mean a lot to me, and she can go ahead and mentally count me out of her shopping plans for the day.
 
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