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I try, and I really do, not to judge people when they show up in public, but, damn. Lay the Oreos down and walk for a minute.
I’m sorry if I sounded so judgmental. I work in a Assisted Living (over dietary) and around those that need my help. I can help her or do the best I can.It's not always about the oreos. I have a friend who is well over 350 lbs. She eats a healthy diet and does the best she can. She only has one functioning lung, however, and is unable to walk very far and certainly not fast. She can't exercise either. She would love to be much stronger and smaller, but physically can't do it. No amount of willpower can change her disability.
She does, however, dress in fashionable and modest clothing.
I’m sorry if I sounded so judgmental. I work in a Assisted Living (over dietary) and around those that need my help. I can help her or do the best I can.
Thanks. It's OK. I often have to stop myself from being judgemental. Often, my first reaction to seeing people who are obviously not healthy is to think "why don't they just..."
Then usually my wife slaps me and says to stop judging. I wrote my original reply as much for me as anyone else. I need reminding often.
