My sons birthday is near the end of August so we had a choice of whether to let him be the youngest or oldest in his class. We kept him home with my wife an extra year even though he could already read and write then...which is 1st grade stuff. The school tried to get us to let him skip a grade (asked about 2) and basically make him a Doogie Howser. We politely declined. He made a B in 2nd grade, a B in 7th grade and all As the rest of his time in school. All AP classes. This year he is a senior and will be valedictorian . Other than senior English, all of his classes are at the local community college...but I still have to pay full tuition in order for him to be eligible to win valid victorian. The school said he has to be a "full time student paying full tuition" to be eligible for the honor. So it is.... we didn't start him late just for academics though, we wanted him to be more mature and hopefully stay out of trouble. It worked, he has never had a teacher call home or detention. Ever. Thank you, Lord. Very much
So far he has been offered a full ride to some small Christian schools but he wants to go to Liberty University in VA. They are only offering him a 50% ride... FWIW, there is 1 girl a week or 2 older than him and several kids within a month him. He isnt much older than the average kid in his class. Also...his accomplishments are just that...his. They are not his mothers and mine.
I can understand parents in our situation starting their kids later for several different reasons. We chose to send our kids to Christian school also. The first 18 years of a persons life can make the next 50 pretty easy and fun...or very hard and mostly miserable. Crazy that's the way of the world, but it is. Choose wisely.