His mom posted this on his CaringBridge page:
We continue by Jays bedside and watch as his breathing becomes more and more shallow. But looking at his face he is at peace. Daddy and I have told him that we will take care of Daniel, Jenny, Ella and each other, go get your reward. God Bless everyone for their outpouring of love for Jay and us as he leaves this life behind. Jay's Warrriors facebook page has exceded over 20,000 likes as of this evening. We have told him of all that is taking place on the page and have held the phone up to him for all those who have called to lend their support. If he could still speak he would humbly say that he is no hero, just a servant of God. Love to you all.