peachstatevolgirl
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Guys, we need to do the right thing.....I went and read this girl's twitter feeds about the death of her best friend. She is really hurting....
It's time we man up and wish her well and move on.
. We'll never know how attached she was to this unfortunate Fatima girl, and the extent of how the latter's suicide took its toll on her. Aldrete was having a fine season then for some unknown reasons at the time she did struggle a lot later in the season.
I didn't know it was a suicide,that explains a lot,I had a friend that decided to do that and it was around 20 years ago,to this day,I wonder what I could or should have done
being around family and friends helped,especially my friends that knew him,some things only family and friends can help with
when my kids wanted to play team sports in school ( none at an elite level,) I only had a couple rules. They had to stick it out the entire season and they couldn't ***** & moan about their coaches. And, they had to attend every meet & practice.
That got us thru 2 girls in softball, one in golf and my son in little league bb & track.
I hate know it all "wanna be star" parents...
when my kids wanted to play team sports in school ( none at an elite level,) I only had a couple rules. They had to stick it out the entire season and they couldn't ***** & moan about their coaches. And, they had to attend every meet & practice.
That got us thru 2 girls in softball, one in golf and my son in little league bb & track.
I hate know it all "wanna be star" parents...
Melissa batted 4th for the OC Batbuster..one of the premier travel teams in the country. We traveled 4 hours each way from fresno to orange county for 4 years to play on the team... probably 1,000 kids easily who wanted her spot on the team but she was good enough to bat 4th and set their home run record while playing for Doug Myers and then Gary Haning.
Melissa was offered a full ride her sophomore in HS to play at UT and had another half dozen full ride offers... UT followed us to every major recruiting tournament to ensure we picked UT... We were recruited hard... told she would start day 1 and play 1st... they were moving erin webb to 1st so the spot would be open for her when she got there. Melissa had the size, speed, good arm and could hit for power and average.
While at UT, Melissa tore her ligament holding her patella in place and had a severe bone bruise on her left knee her sophomore season. The fall of her junior year, she tore her labrum in her left shoulder... needed surgery but was told she had to play through it. She wore a brace for the first 2 months of the season... finally took the brace off and raised her average 100 points... she was batting 4th the night in Missouri when she broke her hand in a collision in the plate... she had a plate and 9 screws in her left hand... was out 3 weeks and returned to the WCWS. She was on base 4 out of 5 times against Rickets from Oklahoma at the WCWS... had a walk, hit, FC, reached by error, K and a stolen base in the 12 inning game against Rickets and had 1 of 3 hits the team had against Gasgioline in game 2... she had shoulder surgey during the summer but was reinjured and tore the labrum again heading into senior year during the fall.... played her senior season injured... became 1st team SEC, 2nd team all region.... finished her season 5th on the all time home runs list...
Yes... She wasn't a wanna be great player.... she was a great player... 4 and 1/2 years on full ride.
So go talk some more crap...