All Thangs Pussum and Chad Thread

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#42,985
Orangeredblooded said:
How you doing bud?
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As expected thanks for asking. How are you ? Dealing with loss is hard it never is easy . My situation was traumatic I wish I could have saved my sister's life I don't know if I mentioned it but I got the call and was there at 5:10 am and my mom was already there I did chest compression 's and I couldn't get air in her I was cpr certified but that was in 2009 and I feel like I didn’t do enough the ambulance arrived at 535am and they took over . If I could have just got air in her and remembered everything to do. This one really is hit me hard my mom also and I am so worried about my parents I haven't been able to sleep much since. I hate that you are having to go through this also with your loss but they are in better places.
 
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rocytop2624 said:
As expected thanks for asking. How are you ? Dealing with loss is hard it never is easy . My situation was traumatic I wish I could have saved my sister's life I don't know if I mentioned it but I got the call and was there at 5:10 am and my mom was already there I did chest compression 's and I couldn't get air in her I was cpr certified but that was in 2009 and I feel like I didn’t do enough the ambulance arrived at 535am and they took over . If I could have just got air in her and remembered everything to do. This one really is hit me hard my mom also and I am so worried about my parents I haven't been able to sleep much since. I hate that you are having to go through this also with your loss but they are in better places.
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I remember when my baby sis died, I was in boot camp and she was in Jamaica. I only joined the Navy because of her, buddy system. They took me and not her (she had a GED instead of highschool diploma). Even though that was 35 years ago, I still remember every detail of the day I got the call and aftermath. In her suicide note, I was the only one mentioned and how proud she was of me, but couldn't measure up to me. I also remember the circumstances of my older sister and brother's deaths. It's not something anyone can ever forget. Time, memories and faith are what helps the most. There was absolutely nothing I could have done any different to change any of it or GOD would have made it so, just as in your case. My friend was buried at the first of this week and what bothers me the most is that I don't have peace of her being in heaven and that is something I could have done, but didn't. Now, I will have to live with that and do a better job with who is still around.
 
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rocytop2624 said:
As expected thanks for asking. How are you ? Dealing with loss is hard it never is easy . My situation was traumatic I wish I could have saved my sister's life I don't know if I mentioned it but I got the call and was there at 5:10 am and my mom was already there I did chest compression 's and I couldn't get air in her I was cpr certified but that was in 2009 and I feel like I didn’t do enough the ambulance arrived at 535am and they took over . If I could have just got air in her and remembered everything to do. This one really is hit me hard my mom also and I am so worried about my parents I haven't been able to sleep much since. I hate that you are having to go through this also with your loss but they are in better places.
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Hang in there man. Will pray for you.
 
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Orangeredblooded said:
I remember when my baby sis died, I was in boot camp and she was in Jamaica. I only joined the Navy because of her, buddy system. They took me and not her (she had a GED instead of highschool diploma). Even though that was 35 years ago, I still remember every detail of the day I got the call and aftermath. In her suicide note, I was the only one mentioned and how proud she was of me, but couldn't measure up to me. I also remember the circumstances of my older sister and brother's deaths. It's not something anyone can ever forget. Time, memories and faith are what helps the most. There was absolutely nothing I could have done any different to change any of it or GOD would have made it so, just as in your case. My friend was buried at the first of this week and what bothers me the most is that I don't have peace of her being in heaven and that is something I could have done, but didn't. Now, I will have to live with that and do a better job with who is still around.
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She's in heaven. So sorry for your losses.
 
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Orangeredblooded said:
I remember when my baby sis died, I was in boot camp and she was in Jamaica. I only joined the Navy because of her, buddy system. They took me and not her (she had a GED instead of highschool diploma). Even though that was 35 years ago, I still remember every detail of the day I got the call and aftermath. In her suicide note, I was the only one mentioned and how proud she was of me, but couldn't measure up to me. I also remember the circumstances of my older sister and brother's deaths. It's not something anyone can ever forget. Time, memories and faith are what helps the most. There was absolutely nothing I could have done any different to change any of it or GOD would have made it so, just as in your case. My friend was buried at the first of this week and what bothers me the most is that I don't have peace of her being in heaven and that is something I could have done, but didn't. Now, I will have to live with that and do a better job with who is still around.
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Suicide leaves so many questions and pain. When my daughter took her life she didn’t leave a note. That has left me with great pain wondering what I could’ve done differently to make her life happier. Sometimes the feeling of failing her and the pain that brings is almost unbearable.
 
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Souce said:
They stopped at my house that night to request some of my chili -- it's famous throughout the universe apparently!

They also mentioned they were in the area because they had planned to stop by TFG's house to perform an anal probe, but thangs were just too torn up & loose.
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LULZ
TFG must have eaten some of your chili.
 
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Souce said:
They stopped at my house that night to request some of my chili -- it's famous throughout the universe apparently!

They also mentioned they were in the area because they had planned to stop by TFG's house to perform an anal probe, but thangs were just too torn up & loose.
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The like is for the second part.

Lolol
 
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hmanvolfan said:
Suicide leaves so many questions and pain. When my daughter took her life she didn’t leave a note. That has left me with great pain wondering what I could’ve done differently to make her life happier. Sometimes the feeling of failing her and the pain that brings is almost unbearable.
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It’s tough man. My sister suffered a tragic death at 28 years old about 8 years ago. I personally believe that friends & family can go over and above to help out a loved one to no avail sometimes. Unfortunately, there is no positive resolve in certain situations.
 
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rocytop2624 said:
How you know? I was really thinking Mars but I don't know.
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Doctor Google. Don’t remember what I searched on, probably “evening sky” and the date or something. Venus is bluish, Mars is definitely red, I think Jupiter is also a bit red, but my eyes poop out by that point.

Tonight | EarthSky

EarthSky | Visible planets – and more – in November 2021

Which Planets Can You See Tonight? (change to your location)

Observing the impressive brightness of Venus, the Morning and Evening Star
 
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