One, I knew people would point out the obvious which is why I said you could keep those arguements to yourself, I know them. Two, man has the ability to overcome lust, yet the Bible says lust is a sin. Whether you overcome it or not, you've still sinned in the eyes of the Lord. And yes, a great many men, even "Christian" men, chase after women based on lust. How many women do you see and think, "Hey, I bet she's smart and funny and I'd like to get to know her even though she's not that pretty"? Try answering that honestly and not with excuses. Three, are you single? If so, do you occassionally self-love? I'm going to guess yes because you would be in a very small minority if you didn't. So when you do, what are you thinking about? Puppies? What your day's gonna be like? How you need to change the oil in your car? Gonna make a wild guess and say it's about an attractive woman, which would equal lust.
The only point I was making is 10 people can read the same verse and all 10 people could get a different meaning from it. Truthfully, the entire Bible is interpretation. The original was written in Hebrew. Don't know if you have ever translated anything to another language, but lots of interpretation is used because it's impossible to literally translate verbatim from one language to another. Nuances are easily missed and the whole meaning of a passage can be changed. IMO, the "the Bible says" defense is just a croc. It's hard to know what the Bible is really saying. All you know is what you think it says.