I can only tell you what I witnessed regarding the fighting incident. He was not dressed for practice because he was dinged up (or suspended - can't remember which). Rather than being on the field watching practice, he was sitting a few rows up in the bleachers talking on his phone. The coach told him to come down to the field and Darel ignored him and didn't hang up. Then the coach yelled at him to hang up and come on the field. From there I didn't hear what else was said because he started making his way down but there was a heated exchange on the field and they had to be separated - meaning Darel was getting up in the HC face very angry and upset.I don't have a dog in this fight but all I have read in this thread is what he has done to cause problems at Powell, my question is what caused him to want to fight the coach and what has the coaches or the administration done to this kid to make him have such hard feelings. There is always two sides to every story and only one side is being told. I have read that all the coaches and administrators and community have done their best to help this kid but there is a reason he has tuned them out. One problem might be that other kids on the team run home and tell parents whats going on and then it gets blown out of proportion ie, came to practice high. Like I said I have no dog in this fight but both sides of the story is not being told. Im done and feel free to blast away cause I am a man and I can handle it.
How so? What did they do to help? And what exactly was the problem to begin with? So far I haven't seen anything other than 'bad attitude' and 'lazy' and while that might sound like all there needs to be said to you. It really doesn't make any sense to someone outside of the Powell community. It's like we're all supposed to just know and nod our heads and maybe we would if we were from Powell but we're not.
Kids have bad attitudes all the time and plenty of kids are judged as 'lazy' by adults. They even get into trouble, mouth off, and throw fits. That's pretty normal teen behavior. What makes him so special? Or rather why is his case so bad?
Listen-what part of this are you not getting? If you want to babysit him go ahead. But straight from his momma's lips he's had a male therapist trying to help him. Even lived with him to give Mom a break. Within a very short time therapist was done with him. Done. The kid throws tantrums, thinks he's better than everyone else, really something special and no rules, regulations or requests apply to him. He wants favored-nation status in all things. If he doesn't get it, he threatens (or so he thinks) with punishing those he faults by depriving them of his "super-star" abilities. He's beyond ridiculous. You want to continue to be argumentative about what at least three other posters who personally know this kid say then I say you make yourself available to the kid and do your therapeutic best! This is NOT normal teenage stuff. This is way beyond that.