I would never advise you on something where you and your parents are at opposite ends. But, what I've learned is that any decision I've made based on the facts at hand, has been a good decision at the time. Only time will tell if it was a bad decision. No way to tell up front. But, when faced with a decision regarding anything, I made it. Never hesitated. I've made some bad decisions like anyone else. It's what you do at that point that defines, in a little way, who you are. I can see both sides of this but I'm not privy, and don't want to be, to the personal details.
At some point in your life, you have to step up and start making those decisions for yourself, for your future.
Hopefully, you can do that in a way that doesn't alienate your family. And, make sure you have a back up plan for any decisions you choose to make in the adult world.