Canadian man driven to exile to flee spousal support

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Father flees to Philippines leaving wife without spousal support - thestar.com

Last fall, after an Ontario judge awarded his ex-wife spousal and child support of nearly $4,000 a month, Hans Mills, an education software expert with extensive work contacts in Southeast Asia, sent Donna Mills an email telling her he had left Canada for good.

Hans Mills, who has a BA in economics from the University of Toronto, has held a number of sales and marketing positions with e-learning companies. At the time of the breakup, Mills averaged a yearly income of more than $100,000.

$4000 a month on an income of $100k is leaves you nothing to live on after taxes. You're not making it rain on $100k/yr.

The story is complicated by the house Donna Mills and the children live in. The imposing home, on a large lot backing on Lake Ontario near Hamilton, is valued at about $1.2 million, but has a $600,000 mortgage on it.

The couple split in 2005. A deal was finally brokered after a two-day trial and on May 1, 2008, both parties signed the Minutes of Settlement. Donna would have sole custody and stay in the house with the children while Hans paid child support. Donna would pay Hans $175,000 to buy him out of the matrimonial home.

In subsequent court pleadings, Donna maintains she was “rushed and pressured and did not read” the documents before she signed them (Playing the victim card). She said she did not understand she was signing away the right to any future spousal support, even if her circumstances changed.

“Donna got the million dollar lakefront mansion and full custody of the children with child support, but no spousal support, in exchange for the house,” Hans Mills writes. “Everyone at the time agreed that my spousal support obligation had been met fully.”

He notes the deal also provided Donna with a built-in revenue stream because the house contained a separate apartment that was rented for nearly $2,000 a month.

“She is simply lazy and does not want to work,” Mills says of his ex-wife, adding that the toughest decision of his life has left him exiled. His mother and brother live here in Ontario, as do most of his friends.

“I live in the Philippines for Heaven’s sake . . . this is not a country club. I have to keep a loaded shotgun beside my bed at night in case of attack, of which there have been several.”

“The Philippines is about as far as I could go. If I had a spaceship I’d be much further away.”
 
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and thats why you read the fine print! I'm with the dude on this one. Sounds like he is taking care of his kids but is being forced into taking care of his ex wife by the courts also..... Not saying that I agree with his actions, but I certainly understand them....
 
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"“I live in the Philippines for Heaven’s sake . . . this is not a country club.**I have to keep a loaded shotgun beside my bed at night in case of attack,*of which there have been several."


Neo, Is that you?



lol
 
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Dudes making more than 100k a year, if his house is worth 1.7MM dollars
 
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that is Bull ****, the man almost 9 times out of 10 gets screwed by the courts no matter whose fault the divorce is or what happened....they expect him to keep her in the same lifestyle while he has to go dumpster diving for food to live...
 
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The same thing happened to comedian Dave Foley, he got divorced when he was making a lot of money on News Radio.He had to pay over 10,000 a month in child support then. After News radio went off the air, he has not found steady work, but is still required to pay the original number; so he has not been back to Canada because he would go to jail for being delinquent in paying the child support he cannot afford.
 

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