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Father flees to Philippines leaving wife without spousal support - thestar.com
$4000 a month on an income of $100k is leaves you nothing to live on after taxes. You're not making it rain on $100k/yr.
Last fall, after an Ontario judge awarded his ex-wife spousal and child support of nearly $4,000 a month, Hans Mills, an education software expert with extensive work contacts in Southeast Asia, sent Donna Mills an email telling her he had left Canada for good.
Hans Mills, who has a BA in economics from the University of Toronto, has held a number of sales and marketing positions with e-learning companies. At the time of the breakup, Mills averaged a yearly income of more than $100,000.
$4000 a month on an income of $100k is leaves you nothing to live on after taxes. You're not making it rain on $100k/yr.
The story is complicated by the house Donna Mills and the children live in. The imposing home, on a large lot backing on Lake Ontario near Hamilton, is valued at about $1.2 million, but has a $600,000 mortgage on it.
The couple split in 2005. A deal was finally brokered after a two-day trial and on May 1, 2008, both parties signed the Minutes of Settlement. Donna would have sole custody and stay in the house with the children while Hans paid child support. Donna would pay Hans $175,000 to buy him out of the matrimonial home.
In subsequent court pleadings, Donna maintains she was rushed and pressured and did not read the documents before she signed them (Playing the victim card). She said she did not understand she was signing away the right to any future spousal support, even if her circumstances changed.
Donna got the million dollar lakefront mansion and full custody of the children with child support, but no spousal support, in exchange for the house, Hans Mills writes. Everyone at the time agreed that my spousal support obligation had been met fully.
He notes the deal also provided Donna with a built-in revenue stream because the house contained a separate apartment that was rented for nearly $2,000 a month.
She is simply lazy and does not want to work, Mills says of his ex-wife, adding that the toughest decision of his life has left him exiled. His mother and brother live here in Ontario, as do most of his friends.
I live in the Philippines for Heavens sake . . . this is not a country club. I have to keep a loaded shotgun beside my bed at night in case of attack, of which there have been several.
The Philippines is about as far as I could go. If I had a spaceship Id be much further away.