Should I change who I am?

#56
#56
VolGal423 said:
How can you change who you are? If you try to be anything else you'll just come off fake. Girls like nice guys!
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Exactly. Girls like nice guys. They don't want to really date them. I have plenty of female friends that like me. They think I'm a wonderful person. Doesn't really get you far with them though.

This was my mindset for my whole life. I'm a nice guy and I'll meet the right girl. Well, after 30 years I've never come close.

There's being a d*** to girls and there's being a p****. Nice guys tend to fall far to close to being a p****.

The best advice I can give is to be a source of fun or excitement for her if you want to get somewhere early on. Don't try to fix her problems. Try to take her mind off them. Be the reason she forgets about life's stress. Not "the friend" she talks about them with. That'll come later on if there's a relationship.
 
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#59
#59
Would somebody move this BS to the Endzone? If you cannot find a girl, it probably means you are neither interesting nor attractive; it has nothing to do with whether or not you are a nice guy or a dick.
 
#61
#61
Never sell out yourself for a chick. It's ok to be something your not to get some for a night though. And dont let anyone on here tell you differently.

VolsFan4Ever-11 said:
Ok, so i've always been the nice guy and i'm the guy some girls turn to when they need somebody to talk to or something. It's just not my personality to try and be a bad ass or anything. Should I just keep being the nice guy and eventually the right girl will come through and notice, or should I try and change who I am and become more agressive in the field.
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#64
#64
I didn't read any of this except the thread title.

That being said, you should change who you are.
 
#65
#65
If you're a nice guy drinking will make you cooler. If you're a di** it will make you more of one. Drink a 6 pack before you hang out with your gal friends next time.
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#66
#66
Don't go changing to try to please her. You never let her down before. Also, don't imagine that you're too familiar and she doesn't see you anymore. Do not leave her in times of trouble or you never could have come this far. Take the good times. Take the bad times and take them just the way you are.
 
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#67
NewToVolCountry said:
No, they don't. And if for some reason a nice guy gets lucky with a girl, he would just find out down the road that she will get bored with him.

Be too good to a girl and you will get taken advantage of at some point. That's what I've learned.
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Winner. Period.

Girls say they like nice guys, but they are continually seen with the local Tool/Douche.
 
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#68
volinbham said:
Don't go changing to try to please her. You never let her down before. Also, don't imagine that you're too familiar and she doesn't see you anymore. Do not leave her in times of trouble or you never could have come this far. Take the good times. Take the bad times and take them just the way you are.
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Someones been readin'....
 
#69
#69
volinbham said:
Don't go changing to try to please her. You never let her down before. Also, don't imagine that you're too familiar and she doesn't see you anymore. Do not leave her in times of trouble or you never could have come this far. Take the good times. Take the bad times and take them just the way you are.
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Thanks, Billy
 
#70
#70
volinbham said:
Don't go changing to try to please her. You never let her down before. Also, don't imagine that you're too familiar and she doesn't see you anymore. Do not leave her in times of trouble or you never could have come this far. Take the good times. Take the bad times and take them just the way you are.
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This sounds like corny intro music to an 80's sitcom. Also terrible advice.
 
#72
#72
Walk up to her and look into her eyes and say those magic words, "nice shoes, let's f***!"
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#74
#74
GASOUTHERNVOL said:
Walk up to her and look into her eyes and say those magic words, "nice shoes, let's f***!"
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I just take my weiner out, put a knife to her throat, and say "scream and I'll cut you, *****"

They put out every time.
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