Is it possible to be friends with......

#82
#82
She said she hasn't. But she changes her mind more than the wind blows
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#83
#83
Would you say that she is a focused individual or one whom is apt or prone to tease and torment for enjoyment. A good way to judge this is how did\does she speak of you to her friends or yours? The reason I ask is a man can some times be oblivious to his surrounding and all you need to know is there.
 
#84
#84
This woman is the definition of indecisive. Sometimes she says she doesn't know whether we could go back and other times she says she will never let herself do it. Then she will call me crazy for pointing this out. Making me feel crazy
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#86
#86
I was in your shoes a few times.

Since 2005, I've had 3 girlfriends:

Girlfriend #1 - Two year relationship, she wanted to get married and I said no. She cheated on me, I found out.

Girlfriend #2 - Girlfriend #1's best friend... :) We dated for a month and still talk once in a blue moon.

Girlfriend #3 - Left #2 to get with this girl, #2 was kinda psycho. Little did I know, this girl was even more psycho... but in the sack. So much that our entire 8 month relationship was made up of sex, sex, sex, sex, and movies. I went out of town for a weekend and she ended up getting back with her ex... we continued to have sex. For a year and a half while she dated him. We broke up in summer of 2008 - I'm just now fully getting over her, a year after our last encounter.

I still talk to #2 every once in a while, but it's usually her trying to rub it in that she's getting married. She even asked me to photograph her wedding... and for a large discount.

With my advice, I'd say bone her friend (or 4) and forget about her and her friend(s). IMO...
 
#87
#87
I don't think you're doing anyone any favors by remaining friends. Whether or not she realizes it she needs you to break it off.
 
#88
#88
orangeblooded2 said:
How much does she come around or you go over, hang out time in say a week?
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That's hard to answer. The end of our relationship was rough. We aren't exactly friends now. That's why I was asking if its possible. She says she wants to be friends and stuff but then says things to contradict them. We haven't hung out in quite a while. I just don't know what to make of the whole damn situation
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#89
#89
jtflew said:
That's hard to answer. The end of our relationship was rough. We aren't exactly friends now. That's why I was asking if its possible. She says she wants to be friends and stuff but then says things to contradict them. We haven't hung out in quite a while. I just don't know what to make of the whole damn situation
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Most females are harder to read than bosgap's gibberish, it's normal.
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#90
#90
jtflew said:
That's hard to answer. 1).The end of our relationship was rough. We aren't exactly friends now. 2).That's why I was asking if its possible. 3). She says she wants to be friends and stuff but then says things to contradict them. We haven't hung out in quite a while. I just don't know what to make of the whole damn situation
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1). I think you just found your answer in your own words.
2). Later and only if she comes to you. But don't wait on it.
3). At this point her actions out way her words.

...and I hate to say it but sometimes young man, with women you may never know what to make of a situation.

Cut of contact, phone calls and seeing her If she comes to you, go from there. And like kissyvol said whether she knows it or not she needs it just as bad as you.
 
#91
#91
Whatever you do, make sure you do not drunk dial or text her.

No matter how good of an idea you think it is, you will really regret it in the morning.
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#92
#92
Vols520 said:
Whatever you do, make sure you do not drunk dial or text her.

No matter how good of an idea you think it is, you will really regret it in the morning.
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Trust me its a bit late on that one. And yeah I learned my lesson
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#94
#94
kissyVol said:
I don't think you're doing anyone any favors by remaining friends. Whether or not she realizes it she needs you to break it off.
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He shouldn't be doing any favors, he should be getting them. Otherwise, "here's the door b**ch"
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#95
#95
I'm just let it play out and try not to get my hopes up. Key word being try
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#97
#97
But I think I'm going to go with th cold shoulder approach as opposed to the I'm still in love with you one
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#99
#99
jtflew said:
But I think I'm going to go with th cold shoulder approach as opposed to the I'm still in love with you one
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Personally I'd go with the kiss my @$$ approach
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#100
#100
GASOUTHERNVOL said:
Personally I'd go with the kiss my @$$ approach
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Oh I know I should when about 3 months after we broke up the only time she would contact me was for computer assistance. I'm an idiot and will be the first to admit. I'm not entirely sure why I think there is anything there still.
 
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