This is Orange_Crush. lolol
I'm genuinely asking, is the conversation really all that one-sided? Are there really 100s of 1000s of people out there looking for a reason to harm trans people? If so, that is so alien to me and my circle.
I/we have the perception: Gender dysphoria is a mental illness. Is it most helpful to affirm the delusion, or to treat it as a mental illness? (Would I be helping an anorexic to affirm their starvation? Maybe given them a lap band while we're at it?) It is possible to disagree with someone and refuse to participate in their delusion BECAUSE we love them and want the best for them?
On the subject of discussing trans violence. If transgenderism is a mental illness, then that means that the trans community is basically, by definition a community of mentally ill people. Does it follow that feeding irrational hate and violence into a mentally ill community can create crazy, irrational, hate-filled violence from a portion of that community?
(I realize that doing so can cause hate-violence from any community and respond that that's just ONE more reason to shine a light on it in ANY of its various forms. But for the sake of argument, is it safe to assume there is greater chance, the greater % of mental illness in a community?)
If that be the case, is it a service to the trans community or society at large to refuse to attribute the hate-filled violence and radicalizing culture to those doing it?
I had a thought a few minutes ago. If the kid had been a far-right white nationalist, I would have wanted that to be exposed because I don't want far right white nationalists getting off the hook for this. Because I hate extremist hate and violence. Period. No matter its logo or underlying political bend.
Pointedly, I would not have been defensive at all about him being a far-right white nationalist because I am not a far-right white nationalist, nor do I affiliate with them, nor do I identify with them. It would be odd in the extreme to get defensive about that possibility--especially enough to start diverting attention and gaslighting about it.
I find it incredibly odd and alien to think that there are those in the media and in this threat that might get defensive enough about far-left-extreme-murder-violence-hate to think, "Yah. That would be too close for comfort. Let's blame it on someone else."
Why the need? Why self-identify with that in ANY WAY? And if you truly do hate extremist hate and murder in any form, why work so hard to give one side a pass by trying so hard to pin it on someone else?