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TN Jed said:
Hey dugout.....quck-ish question for ya...since there's a lot of old, wise men here(maybe some ladies too)....what can I do about a gal that's perpetually late? Like , every time. Doesn't matter if it's a date with me, a doctor, nail appointment...whatever. drives me nuts. She's a sweetheart, and really good lookin', but it is driving me nuts. I'm at witts end.
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My now deceased wife was like that all the time too. Now, I don't have that problem.
I understand your frustration completely though. I just learned to live with it. Most women are like that I imagine. Its something that they're born that way.
 
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W.TN.Orange Blood said:
My now deceased wife was like that all the time too. Now, I don't have that problem.
I understand your frustration completely though. I just learned to live with it. Most women are like that I imagine. Its something that they're born that way.
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Ah, now I see the second part of your post.....so just suck it up? I can deal. Thanks for the insight😉
 
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TN Jed said:
Hey dugout.....quck-ish question for ya...since there's a lot of old, wise men here(maybe some ladies too)....what can I do about a gal that's perpetually late? Like , every time. Doesn't matter if it's a date with me, a doctor, nail appointment...whatever. drives me nuts. She's a sweetheart, and really good lookin', but it is driving me nuts. I'm at witts end.
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Adjust the time that you want to leave versus what you tell her.

Example: Want to leave at 10, tell her we have to be out the door by 9:30
 
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TN Jed said:
Divorce happened to me...didn't want it to, but those were the cards I was delt. So, play them. I suppose accepting faults is part of a relationship.
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She asked for a divorce a time or two & even tried several times to kick me out
but I would just laugh & say who the hell would put up w/ you & take care of you now?
So the conversation would always end there. 🤠
 
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TN Jed said:
Hey dugout.....quck-ish question for ya...since there's a lot of old, wise men here(maybe some ladies too)....what can I do about a gal that's perpetually late? Like , every time. Doesn't matter if it's a date with me, a doctor, nail appointment...whatever. drives me nuts. She's a sweetheart, and really good lookin', but it is driving me nuts. I'm at witts end.
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Man+Woman rule #1:

She is going to change. She is not going to change you.

As for your question:

If it is a date with you, you just schedule them 20 minutes early. "Meet me at 6." Make the reservation for 6:30. If she shows up early, sit at the bar.

If it is for her doctor, her nails, her stuff, let her be as late as she wants, it has no impact on you. Let her breathe; let her live.

If she is sweet and really good lookin', and you are having to wait on her to get ready, go sit in the room and watch her get ready. When she asks what you are doing, tell her you are just watching her because she is soooo good looking and you just like watching her move. She will either blush and think herself the luckiest woman alive, or she will think you are weird, and you don't want to be with a woman like that anyway.
 
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TN Jed said:
Hey dugout.....quck-ish question for ya...since there's a lot of old, wise men here(maybe some ladies too)....what can I do about a gal that's perpetually late? Like , every time. Doesn't matter if it's a date with me, a doctor, nail appointment...whatever. drives me nuts. She's a sweetheart, and really good lookin', but it is driving me nuts. I'm at witts end.
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Being able to see one’s faults and still realize you can’t be without that person, is a special thing.
I’m not sure how old you are Jed, but if this is the case, don’t just take it for granted.
Plus she’s hot, c’mon dude!
 
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Ritzwatch said:
Man+Woman rule #1:

She is going to change. She is not going to change you.

As for your question:

If it is a date with you, you just schedule them 20 minutes early. "Meet me at 6." Make the reservation for 6:30. If she shows up early, sit at the bar.

If it is for her doctor, her nails, her stuff, let her be as late as she wants, it has no impact on you. Let her breathe; let her live.

If she is sweet and really good lookin', and you are having to wait on her to get ready, go sit in the room and watch her get ready. When she asks what you are doing, tell her you are just watching her because she is soooo good looking and you just like watching her move. She will either blush and think herself the luckiest woman alive, or she will think you are weird, and you don't want to be with a woman like that anyway.
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Damn Dr Ruth!
Imma start hittin you up for relationship advice.
😎
 
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