Well saidMy advice is to let him know he is not playing for you but playing for fun. Let him know you already played and you’re only there to support him. Have fun trying hard and try hard to have fun is what I tell my kids.
Lots of articles out there but like anything you know your kids best. Maybe make a special day where you “have to” miss a game so he knows it’s not the most important thing in life…
The pros know it’s all on them, talent, luck, and determination. Parents can drive them to games but can also drive the “want” out of them by living vicariously…
JMO
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Helping Young Athletes Deal with a Fear of Failure
When most parents think about their kids playing sports, they probably envision themselves cheering their child on to victory and celebrating their achievements. But for most young athletes, there will also be setbacks and losses, and your child is probably more sensitive to this possibility...www.imgacademy.com
That's really a big deal.Pretty Holly in as a 6-seed.
The streak is alive. Congratulations to @InVOLuntary on another great season!
Good luck, coach!
its actually shocking to see how Vescovi has regressed the past couple of years.
Had to share because this is absolutely amazing. So we have been friends with this couple for almost 20 years. The wife has been in terrible health ever since we met them. She has Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, dysautonomia and chiari malformation. She was basically bed ridden for almost 5 years. On all kinds of meds. She was sick all the time.
Well about a year and a half ago she gave up all carbs and started eating nothing but protein and fat. Pure carnivore. Now? She takes no medications. She can walk. She is rarely sick. Tons of energy. She has completely healed herself.
I feel bad for him. I thought DK taking the defensive focus from him would allow him to thrive, but it’s been the opposite, and I can’t figure out why.Had to share because this is absolutely amazing. So we have been friends with this couple for almost 20 years. The wife has been in terrible health ever since we met them. She has Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, dysautonomia and chiari malformation. She was basically bed ridden for almost 5 years. On all kinds of meds. She was sick all the time.
Well about a year and a half ago she gave up all carbs and started eating nothing but protein and fat. Pure carnivore. Now? She takes no medications. She can walk. She is rarely sick. Tons of energy. She has completely healed herself.
its actually shocking to see how Vescovi has regressed the past couple of years.
I may have worded that incorrectly…. I’m on vacation in new york…. we live in North Carolina and he was playing a local USSSA tournament in the Charlotte area. I don’t think it’s the team bc he doesn’t have a good feel for them yet…. I think it is all mental for him…. It would have helped if we had been able to be there for his first tournament….. i’m going to start working on sports psychology techniques with him… I’m competitive but try not to be over the top with him( I was that way with my daughters basketball and feel like i pushed her too hard). I just want him to have fun and for us to enjoy baseball together.He’s a little older than I thought. That’s a tough one. All you can do is be positive and the main thing is he has to know you are on his side and that you just love to see him play. At that age just support and don’t push the performance aspect. Baseball is very mental and the mental toughness has to come from him. He’s got to have fun and be sure this new team no matter how good it may be and competition is good and challenging that he WANTS to be doing this. I’m not talking about playing baseball but playing with this organization and group of kids. If I remember correctly, you live in GA but your playing in New York is really travel ball. Playing PG or other travel orgs in the south can be challenging as well. Need to be sure the team fits your son and vice versa.
Thanks for the advice…. I plan on using those techniques from the article that you shared.My advice is to let him know he is not playing for you but playing for fun. Let him know you already played and you’re only there to support him. Have fun trying hard and try hard to have fun is what I tell my kids.
Lots of articles out there but like anything you know your kids best. Maybe make a special day where you “have to” miss a game so he knows it’s not the most important thing in life…
The pros know it’s all on them, talent, luck, and determination. Parents can drive them to games but can also drive the “want” out of them by living vicariously…
JMO
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Helping Young Athletes Deal with a Fear of Failure
When most parents think about their kids playing sports, they probably envision themselves cheering their child on to victory and celebrating their achievements. But for most young athletes, there will also be setbacks and losses, and your child is probably more sensitive to this possibility...www.imgacademy.com
Just trying to help here, not throwing darts….I may have worded that incorrectly…. I’m on vacation in new york…. we live in North Carolina and he was playing a local USSSA tournament in the Charlotte area. I don’t think it’s the team bc he doesn’t have a good feel for them yet…. I think it is all mental for him…. It would have helped if we had been able to be there for his first tournament….. i’m going to start working on sports psychology techniques with him… I’m competitive but try not to be over the top with him( I was that way with my daughters basketball and feel like i pushed her too hard). I just want him to have fun and for us to enjoy baseball together.
I’m much more cognizant of that now….. I was coached in a different manner in the 90’s and it didn’t bother me and made me more competitive… My daughter did go on to play college basketball and loves the game still. I just feel that i could do things better…. I try not to coach during games. I do try to be positive after the games… It is hard bc i don’t want too much pressure on him… I also want to help him but not be overbearing… We pay for a facility and practice a lot…. i tell him that we don’t have to do that if he doesn’t want to practice like that.Just trying to help here, not throwing darts….
You said it all in your post above. This one stings but appears to be on you. My advice is that he never hears, other than good hit, not even good try (out), but preferably doesn’t see you during the games other than being there if he gets hurt.
Don’t tell him what he could have done better, no in game coaching, don’t ask him to play catch, etc…. He just needs to know you are there for him, not there judging him…