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#964
#964
Short rant & question: I let my ex keep my dog for a few reasons. 1. My adult children were still living with him and I didn’t want to take her from them. 2. I was living in a small apartment by myself and I didn’t want her to be lonely. 3. I felt sorry for him, he was an emotional wreck when I left. Moving forward to today. Now, I’m moving into a house. One of my adult children is moving in with me. The other one will visit regularly, and my ex just bought a puppy….. Am I an ass for wanting my dog now?
 
#965
#965
SumSoonerChick said:
Short rant & question: I let my ex keep my dog for a few reasons. 1. My adult children were still living with him and I didn’t want to take her from them. 2. I was living in a small apartment by myself and I didn’t want her to be lonely. 3. I felt sorry for him, he was an emotional wreck when I left. Moving forward to today. Now, I’m moving into a house. One of my adult children is moving in with me. The other one will visit regularly, and my ex just bought a puppy….. Am I an ass for wanting my dog now?
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Nope.
Get your dog back
 
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#967
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SumSoonerChick said:
Short rant & question: I let my ex keep my dog for a few reasons. 1. My adult children were still living with him and I didn’t want to take her from them. 2. I was living in a small apartment by myself and I didn’t want her to be lonely. 3. I felt sorry for him, he was an emotional wreck when I left. Moving forward to today. Now, I’m moving into a house. One of my adult children is moving in with me. The other one will visit regularly, and my ex just bought a puppy….. Am I an ass for wanting my dog now?
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No, you're not an ass or anywhere close for wanting the dog back and imo silly to even ask.

It's just my opinion, but there's alot of stuff I don't know about the situation. If the dog is "good" where he is (I mean not being mistreated etc) and it's been that way for awhile, that's his home so I'd let him stay there and get myself another one.

It would come down to searching my heart and seeing what I genuinely felt was best for the dog.

That said, If your son that's coming to live with you is really attached to the dog, your ex should insist you take the dog.

Just alot of working parts we're not privy to. Hope it all works out.
 
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#968
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SumSoonerChick said:
Short rant & question: I let my ex keep my dog for a few reasons. 1. My adult children were still living with him and I didn’t want to take her from them. 2. I was living in a small apartment by myself and I didn’t want her to be lonely. 3. I felt sorry for him, he was an emotional wreck when I left. Moving forward to today. Now, I’m moving into a house. One of my adult children is moving in with me. The other one will visit regularly, and my ex just bought a puppy….. Am I an ass for wanting my dog now?
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As I understand it, you are currently dating @Grand Vol ? If so no you shouldn’t get your dog back because your decision making skills are questionable at best…
 
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#971
#971
SumSoonerChick said:
Moving out of my crappy apartment and into a 3 bedroom house next week. My oldest, who has Autism, will be moving in with me and trying to get some services and a job up here in the city. There was nothing for him out in the sticks; he was just wasting away.
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And more room for GV i presume.
 
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#975
#975
Tin Man said:
I’ve made an effort not to edit for grammar my posts on VN.
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I hope you're accomplishing whatever it is that motivated you to do so.

Shame you have to make an effort to be like the rest of us heatherns'.

*I made an effort to edit for Grammer my post in this here thread.
 
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