Hmmm... I guess I really am not ready just yet to come to terms with that, but I'm not saying you are not correct, either.
They are not targeting areas specifically to kill as many civilians as they can. This is not an extinction or genocide exercise. The Ukrainians are using civil facilities as military staging points and the Russians are going after those specific locations. Obviously, that puts innocent lives at risk, no one is disputing that fact. But they are not going in and indiscriminately bombing every building in site just for the sake of it. In The US, we call that "collateral damage".
That's false. The humanitarian corridors are part of the same strategy that they used in Syria. The corridors serve two purposes. You evacuate the civilians and you allow deserters on the opposite side to drop their weapons, take off their uniforms and slip away. You are essentially providing your enemy and exit.
Sure they did, and the Donbas was not given the right to be sovereign people after the US coordinated coup in 2014. Had the US not overthrown Yanukovich, Ukraine would have been fully in tact right now.