franklinpence
Living the Technicolor Dream
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My father just lost his battle with Covid. My heart is crushed.
Beautifully saidThe older you get, the more pain you feel. And honestly, it's not the physical pain that hurts the worst. It's all the scars on your heart from everyone you've lost, that you miss so much, that you just can't seem to let go of. Being a Christian, I believe I'll see them again, but even believing that it doesn't make that loss any easier. That hole in your life is always there, no matter what. You figure out a way to keep living because you have to, but those are the wounds that run the deepest, the ones that bite your soul and make you really want to howl.
He was just joking...jeez man. Damn people don't see what's going on and where we are headed.
The man doesn't deserve to have his livelihood taken away for that harmless...period.
Common sense, true tolerance and human understanding is dead.
The older you get, the more pain you feel. And honestly, it's not the physical pain that hurts the worst. It's all the scars on your heart from everyone you've lost, that you miss so much, that you just can't seem to let go of. Being a Christian, I believe I'll see them again, but even believing that it doesn't make that loss any easier. That hole in your life is always there, no matter what. You figure out a way to keep living because you have to, but those are the wounds that run the deepest, the ones that bite your soul and make you really want to howl.
Dang... iirc my tuition was like 8k, dorm was 3-4k meal plan was another couple thousand. Quickly moved off campus to save money on meal plan and housing.
I had HOPE-plus, TN scholarship, half off tuition, and applied for some independent scholarships. Managed to get out with about 20k debt.
Its insane how much the cost of school has increased.
Bingo. One of my employees has 2 degrees and spent 7 years in college. I am a 2.5 GPA high school grad that learned more about work ethic and leadership at a young age. I just get stuff done. Once you get in the real world of work it's about how can you make your employer the most money in the most efficient way, doing the best most accurate job.My med school loans were another issue…forever thankful that my Mother could take out a home equity loan to make up the difference. I was able to defer my student loan payments and focus on the home equity loan first. Once my Mother’s house was free and clear, then I focused on my student loans. (UT and med school). My wife and I lived on a shoestring budget until we paid off all of our student loans.
Funny thing about education costs, the Valedictorian of my high school went to Harvard and then to Johns Hopkins for med school. Racked up almost $1 million in debt for those degrees. (Found out at our 10 year high school reunion) My wife I went to both went to state schools, she went to a state med school and I went to a Caribbean med school. Our total debt was <$250k. I am part of a very successful practice and make more than he does. The names of your schools only help with your first job…then it’s about you!
My Dad told me once, no one ever once asked him in 50 years of practice where his law degree is/was from. Not once. Because as it should be - one's reputation , in your case as a practitioner matters.My med school loans were another issue…forever thankful that my Mother could take out a home equity loan to make up the difference. I was able to defer my student loan payments and focus on the home equity loan first. Once my Mother’s house was free and clear, then I focused on my student loans. (UT and med school). My wife and I lived on a shoestring budget until we paid off all of our student loans.
Funny thing about education costs, the Valedictorian of my high school went to Harvard and then to Johns Hopkins for med school. Racked up almost $1 million in debt for those degrees. (Found out at our 10 year high school reunion) My wife I went to both went to state schools, she went to a state med school and I went to a Caribbean med school. Our total debt was <$250k. I am part of a very successful practice and make more than he does. The names of your schools only help with your first job…then it’s about you!
My Dad told me once, no one ever once asked him in 50 years of practice where his law degree is/was from. Not once. Because as it should be - one's reputation , in your case as a practitioner matters.
Of all my buddies in College (yes i'm the black sheep), one who went to Carib likely makes most $. Granted I dont believe success is measured by material or financial success. He was always most happy go lucky dude, plain, vanilla, never had greatest grades. Now he's an anethesiologist in Atl. Great guy. I dont need to mention how well he's done, crazy.