But let's say she is throwing a house party and I am throwing one.
Her:
She calls to worry about it, whether things are clean enough, whether she has enough food that every single person will like and what we think she should do. We give her our opinion then she goes on to worry about the options even more.
Me:
I don't mind a little mess, makes it look like an actual home that is lived in. I will make what I want and if people like it or don't, McDonald's is down the road.