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I'm not one to give advice... But I know how you are feeling. I lost my father and shortly after my sister. She was only 45 and passed in church of all places. We were very close. Sent me further down a rabbit hole. My mom now has early onset Alzheimer's. Christmas would be unbearable if not for my wife, her family and my brother. Hang in there...
 
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TennGirl0723 said:
Y'all, I gotta get some things out of my system, so I'm going to do it here cause you don't know me :) This has been the ****tiest year OF MY LIFE. My dad has cancer and his heart is failing...my hubby passed on to Heaven in May at 46..and today, my daughter was in a bad car wreck. She is going to be ok, but OMG when I got that phone call! Here it is Christmas season and I come home to an empty, quiet home. It gets to me - A LOT.

sorry, I just had to get personal for a few minutes and let it out!!! My dad doesn't want anyone to know about his cancer, so we can't say anything...

I know everyone has issues, but ****, I just needed to vent for a sec. I feel like I have to hold it in all the time, so.....thanks for listening or reading or just scrolling by. :)

Carry on!
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My wife and I are praying for you at this moment. Stay strong TennGirl.
 
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Y'all are so sweet! I really didn't want to sound all whiny, I just needed to scream it out. I know God knows what he is doing, but sometimes I wonder what is going on with his plans. I don't have family left except for my dad, sister, brother and daughter and none of them live here, so I get to feeling a little isolated at times.

thanks for listening :) couldn't be without my VOlNation folks!
 
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TennGirl0723 said:
Y'all, I gotta get some things out of my system, so I'm going to do it here cause you don't know me :) This has been the ****tiest year OF MY LIFE. My dad has cancer and his heart is failing...my hubby passed on to Heaven in May at 46..and today, my daughter was in a bad car wreck. She is going to be ok, but OMG when I got that phone call! Here it is Christmas season and I come home to an empty, quiet home. It gets to me - A LOT.

sorry, I just had to get personal for a few minutes and let it out!!! My dad doesn't want anyone to know about his cancer, so we can't say anything...

I know everyone has issues, but ****, I just needed to vent for a sec. I feel like I have to hold it in all the time, so.....thanks for listening or reading or just scrolling by. :)

Carry on!
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That's what we are here for, vent all you need to. Sounds like it's been a horrible year for you. Hope next year is full of many blessings!
 
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TennGirl0723 said:
Y'all are so sweet! I really didn't want to sound all whiny, I just needed to scream it out. I know God knows what he is doing, but sometimes I wonder what is going on with his plans. I don't have family left except for my dad, sister, brother and daughter and none of them live here, so I get to feeling a little isolated at times.

thanks for listening :) couldn't be without my VOlNation folks!
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Oh ****. I’m so sorry. I can’t say anything other than my family is praying for you. 🧡
 
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TennGirl0723 said:
Volzonya, I am so sorry to hear about your dad & sister. It is a difficult time for sure. ((HUGS))
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Thanks TennGirl. I was very mad at God about my sister for a good while. I worked through it. Without his help I would still be in that rabbit hole. I ain't perfect, but I'm a believer! Hugs back atchya.
 
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Volzonya said:
I'm not one to give advice... But I know how you are feeling. I lost my father and shortly after my sister. She was only 45 and passed in church of all places. We were very close. Sent me further down a rabbit hole. My mom now has early onset Alzheimer's. Christmas would be unbearable if not for my wife, her family and my brother. Hang in there...
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Sorry, volzonya. Just proof we don’t know what battles others are fighting.
 
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TennGirl0723 said:
Y'all, I gotta get some things out of my system, so I'm going to do it here cause you don't know me :) This has been the ****tiest year OF MY LIFE. My dad has cancer and his heart is failing...my hubby passed on to Heaven in May at 46..and today, my daughter was in a bad car wreck. She is going to be ok, but OMG when I got that phone call! Here it is Christmas season and I come home to an empty, quiet home. It gets to me - A LOT.

sorry, I just had to get personal for a few minutes and let it out!!! My dad doesn't want anyone to know about his cancer, so we can't say anything...

I know everyone has issues, but ****, I just needed to vent for a sec. I feel like I have to hold it in all the time, so.....thanks for listening or reading or just scrolling by. :)

Carry on!
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Oh gosh, TG, I’m so sorry to hear! Gather your loved ones close this Christmas. Prayers for you all.
 
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TennGirl0723 said:
Y'all, I gotta get some things out of my system, so I'm going to do it here cause you don't know me :) This has been the ****tiest year OF MY LIFE. My dad has cancer and his heart is failing...my hubby passed on to Heaven in May at 46..and today, my daughter was in a bad car wreck. She is going to be ok, but OMG when I got that phone call! Here it is Christmas season and I come home to an empty, quiet home. It gets to me - A LOT.

sorry, I just had to get personal for a few minutes and let it out!!! My dad doesn't want anyone to know about his cancer, so we can't say anything...

I know everyone has issues, but ****, I just needed to vent for a sec. I feel like I have to hold it in all the time, so.....thanks for listening or reading or just scrolling by. :)

Carry on!
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Wow, that's a lot going on. I'm sorry to hear about your husband and your dad. I lost my dad to cancer a couple of years ago and it sucks. I watched my sister-in-law and her kids lose their husband/dad about six months before that so I know that sucks too.

I am thankful your daughter is ok. You are never alone on here. We'll keep you in our prayers.
 
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TennGirl0723 said:
Y'all, I gotta get some things out of my system, so I'm going to do it here cause you don't know me :) This has been the ****tiest year OF MY LIFE. My dad has cancer and his heart is failing...my hubby passed on to Heaven in May at 46..and today, my daughter was in a bad car wreck. She is going to be ok, but OMG when I got that phone call! Here it is Christmas season and I come home to an empty, quiet home. It gets to me - A LOT.

sorry, I just had to get personal for a few minutes and let it out!!! My dad doesn't want anyone to know about his cancer, so we can't say anything...

I know everyone has issues, but ****, I just needed to vent for a sec. I feel like I have to hold it in all the time, so.....thanks for listening or reading or just scrolling by. :)

Carry on!
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Prayers your way TennGirl ... we're here for you ...
 
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Dtj64 said:
We have Dormady, Garintano and McBride. We need to sighn another quality qb this class though.
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It will be interesting to see how the 3 QB's we have develop under CJP, imo Dobbs developed himself and the previous staff did very very little in developing QB's other than that ... and yes, definitely, we need a youngun' to come into the mix and develop from scratch under the new staff ...
 
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lifeVol said:
It will be interesting to see how the 3 QB's we have develop under CJP, imo Dobbs developed himself and the previous staff did very very little in developing QB's other than that ... and yes, definitely, we need a youngun' to come into the mix and develop from scratch under the new staff ...
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I think we'll see vast improvement in player development at qb. Dobbs developed himself, you are correct in that assumption. Lol
 
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Apes fighting battles as well. Didn't mean to make him sound like the clown or comedian. Hope that someone is still liking him.
 
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