If your god creates you knowing full well that you will end up suffering for eternity in hell, how do you reconcile that with the idea that he loves and cares for his creation? Was the short time you had on earth worth eternal torment in hell? He's not doing us any favors. When a child tortures small, helpless animals, we view it as a signal of deeply rooted mental illness and the potential for harming human beings. When your god displays sadistic behavior, we say... god works in mysterious ways.
No, if I am operating within the framework of your god being real, it would not make sense to say god "couldn't" do that. The implication of your reality is already absurd (not in a derogatory sense, only relative to our current understanding of laws and physics) so of course absurd things can happen.
It is categorically false that all received the same chance, because god created them already knowing what would happen. 95% of humanity never had a chance to begin with.
This is a rather sad and dark thought to conclude with, that not only contradicts the idea of a just and kind god, but also contradicts your claim that everyone gets a chance at salvation. You are admitting here that some do not, and are punished for the sins of their father, something entirely out of their control. And it's okay?
The implications of your specific beliefs, were they true, do not comfort me or inspire confidence in a loving, just, and perfect god.