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apevol said:
Im 700 miles away from anyone i love. the person i love best is trapped in a living hell, and they dont make drugs like they used to.
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Then go get her. You’re Obviousky somewhat indestructible. Might as well visit hell to get her out rather than spend a lifetime in hell wishing you would have
 
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Volzonya said:
A powerful woman should not be vulnerable to the obvious pitfalls in life. You are a lawyer correct?
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I am. I’m well aware, as is anyone that’s spent enough time on earth, that life has pitfalls but you get through them. I was just saying that sometimes when you’re inside of those feelings, you can’t imagine its going to get better...even though with time it always does.
 
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One day an Eskimo philosopher decided to go ice fishing -------

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Volzonya said:
I'm not pretending to know you but from your pic and your obvious intelligence I can't help but assume you don't have a strong relationship with your father.
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You’re so far off base it’s not even funny. My parents are still married and we’re a very tight-knit family. I was trying to empathize with ape. This has nothing to do with me. And I’m not sure why you’d assume I have daddy issues based on a photo
 
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Volzonya said:
I'm not pretending to know you but from your pic and your obvious intelligence I can't help but assume you don't have a strong relationship with your father.
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Typical, man. The dudes get all sad and emo on the board and no one says a thing. A girl tries to empathize and suddenly shes got issues that stem from not having a father figure?! Really dude, thanks for playing.
 
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Leximax said:
You’re so far off base it’s not even funny. My parents are still married and we’re a very tight-knit family. I was trying to empathize with ape. This has nothing to do with me. And I’m not sure why you’d assume I have daddy issues based on a photo
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Photo had nothing to do with father issues. Only that you are handsome enough to not have to deal with such issues. Your success in your professional life should mirror your success in your personal life. In effect the only thing that would create a schism in that would be some social interference from your past. I'm sorry for getting too personal. My intentions though misguided are pure.
 
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Volzonya said:
Photo had nothing to do with father issues. Only that you are handsome enough to not have to deal with such issues. Your success in your professional life should mirror your success in your personal life. In effect the only thing that would create a schism in that would be some social interference from your past. I'm sorry for getting too personal. My intentions though misguided are pure.
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Where did you read my personal life is not successful? I’ve been through bad breakups as have most people.
 
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Volzonya said:
Photo had nothing to do with father issues. Only that you are handsome enough to not have to deal with such issues. Your success in your professional life should mirror your success in your personal life. In effect the only thing that would create a schism in that would be some social interference from your past. I'm sorry for getting too personal. My intentions though misguided are pure.
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Sometimes life happens and it isn’t your fault. Professionally successful people are not immune from life’s hardships. The day I got my doctorate didn’t mean that from there forward, nothing could ever go wrong again. Life happens and occasionally it hurts. I’m not hurting now but my friends on the board are and I was merely iterating that we’ve all been there.
 
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Leximax said:
Where did you read my personal life is not successful? I’ve been through bad breakups as have most people.
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You intimated that you were heartbroken and homesick. Every man alive whether married or single will want to make a sad pretty woman feel better in some way. My mistake was assuming. Chivalrous but diving into a puddle. Forgive my drunken exuberance.
 
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Volzonya said:
You intimated that you were heartbroken and homesick. Every man alive whether married or single will want to make a sad pretty woman feel better in some way. My mistake was assuming. Chivalrous but diving into a puddle. Forgive my drunken exuberance.
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You misread that. My friends onvthe board are both heartbroken. I know there’s no feeling worse than that although I feel homesickness is almost on par. If I needed a man to come save me, I’d go get one.
 
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Leximax said:
You misread that. My friends onvthe board are both heartbroken. I know there’s no feeling worse than that although I feel homesickness is almost on par. If I needed a man to come save me, I’d go get one.
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When someone cares they are neither man nor woman. The are humanity.
 
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Volzonya said:
I'm sorry lexi. Hope we can still get weird with the boys again.
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Sure, I’m not a grudge-holder; it’s a waste of energy. but that was way out of line especially when you were present on the board all night and didn’t feel the need to “save” ape or Charlie.
 
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Everyone including myself has given ape advice. He will attest to that if conscious. I don't know of Charlie enough to do so but I would if I did. My momma raised a good boy that cares for people despite of their gender. I'm a country boy with a tender heart and leather skin. I can live with no grudge but I really want a mutual understanding and snap and clear.
 
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Leximax said:
And you don’t know me well enough to do so either. But you did.
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Emotions run both ways. Cause and effect. If ape is giving signs of being vulnerable and on the ledge he put that out here and caring people respond. Do we know him? Most don't. We Care from what he decides to divulge. You ain't on a ledge but you divulged info pertaining to your current emotional state. Do we know what kind of car you drive or if you own a house? Nope. We know what you tell us and if someone at 3 in the morning letting it all hang out in a forum is inclined to give a damn and doesn't slow the momentum enough to understand they don't have any backstory before they ask stupid questions, who is stupid? Me. I went over the line in the way I reached out. Pain is pain. I know ape lexi etc on this board better than total strangers. I am susceptible to the human condition as is everyone.
 
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