You sound like a 12 year old. I don't mean that sarcastically or as an insult. I mean that you literally sounds like a 12 year old.
Kids lack the ability to think gradiently about things and are far less capable of processing differing opinions and facts.
The gradient in this is that some people may doubt Gruden despite believing UT is a premier job. Some people doubt Gruden while wanting him as coach badly. The fact of the matter is that Gruden may pass on the job for any amount of personal reasons.
And the fact of the matter is that this is a messageboard designed for UT discussion. You're neither the owner, nor a moderator. So how about settle down and post like an adult?