The Grudens are that old story of romance and football -- boy meets girl, they fall in love, and boy takes four jobs in four years. By the time Jon sent for Cindy to come to San Francisco, he'd been at Southeast Missouri State and Pacific, and was muddling along as a glorified video librarian at the Bill Walsh think tank. Those were the days when Gruden rode to 49ers headquarters on his now-famous bicycle, and it wasn't because he needed the exercise. He was living small.
"He had a metal desk sitting on big cement blocks," Cindy said, "and the TV was on the ironing board. Oh the lifestyles of the rich and famous."
But there was something about that Gruden guy. Cindy was a graduate student at Tennessee, past her days as a college cheerleader, when she met Jon, who was scratching along on the fringes of the Tennessee football program.
"He was a gofer," Cindy says today. "I know I was amazed at all the parking tickets he had at Tennessee. The coaches would send him down to The Strip (Knoxville's main drag) to get something to eat for everybody, and of course parking was just terrible, so he'd just get a place and get a ticket. I don't know if he ever paid all those tickets."
The grad student and the gofer don't sound like the perfect couple, but we are leaving out the part where Jon sat down with Cindy and told her he was a man with plans.
"He used to try to impress me with that 'X-Y jet scramble' football talk," she said. "You know how he is. He is so full of bull. He just loves to spin a story. I always knew he was headed somewhere. He worked so hard. He had his act together, which was rare at that early age."