I'm not having those things done right now! And my husband doesn't notice anything about me. So my dinner party plans have been altered somewhat. Tonight my son's coach reminded us that tomorrow is the award ceremony for the kids to get their trophy. So that's more important to me. It was actually a farewell reception for one of the partners in my husbands firm. And this particular partner's wife and I cut up together. We hit the scotch pretty hard and then the cigars come out, music comes on, the skirts come up, a$$es get low, it gets pretty hilarious up on the roof tops in Chattanooga! So I'm gonna see if I can get her to meet me out Sat. for a ladies lunch.