butchna
Sit down and tell me all about it...way over there
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I agree there's nothing wrong with having fun on VN. I like to joke around myself. However, there's too many posts where people personally attack other members. There should be penalties for that.
Talking about someone or their family personally is totally wrong. I don't care what forum it is called & subject matter is for. I'm a Christian man & that's what upsets me so much about this. We are supposed to all love each other even though most of us don't personally know each other.
Some of the comments I've seen posted has actually made me cry posted towards other people. It's not the way God intended us to live.
Like I said, kidding & joking is a different story but flat out brutally personally attacking ANY member is wrong & that poster should be temporarily banned or something to send a message it's not going to be allowed. Thanks!
Can you cite an example of a "personal" attack? You brought up your deceased father twice and I didn't see anybody pounce. You have an attacking style in your posts but leave your facts at home. You constantly misquote posters even tho the posts were about two back and easily checked. You apologized on one misstep but then sprained your back whilst patting it concerning how much guts it took admitting you were wrong. It seems you're trying to carve out a role as a voice of reason on here...and then fly off the handle! :scare: Calm down and slow your roll. Don't be afraid to put your opinion out on a recruit or issue but present it less aggressively. You're going to get grief when you're wrong (I do), but learn to say ok and keep going.