As a Michigan fan, major contributor(for now), and parent, I've been watching this thread, reading up on which way the comments have sided.
As expected, some have zero tolerance, some are saying wait for the facts, and some are picking apart the young ladies actions as if it justifies his.
My interest in this is because of the transfer portal, where young men can switch teams and get a fresh start. It's easy to see a guy like this through fresh eyes.
I do not though. I understand that this is not the first situation like this. Not the first time he is being accused of being abusive. Not the first time roommates had to step in. Not the first time the details indicate choking. Not the first time he went through a "trial" for an incident like this, although it is the first time where the circumstances led to definitive charges.
This is a repeat offense to some of us here at Michigan, and may have (not certain) been part reason why he left in the first place.
Depending on how this shakes out, I only hope he gets the help he needs, and not the opportunity to use the portal again to get a clean slate.
Good luck to you all this season.