Please, if you can, refrain from the ad hominem attacks. I'm really trying to understand where you're coming from but the "stupid as hell" and "wanted to yell...again" phrases are juvenile.
Is it not correct there were two bills as described above, one about federal money and another about criminalization? If this is so, why would the dems vote against banning federal dollars for such procedures, especially if they are rare as you stated? I would completely agree with voting against a bill making it criminal for the reason stated above and voting for a bill preventing federal funds for any such procedures.
To be sure, if I were in the Tennessee legislature, I would vote to criminalize these type of procedures for anyone under 18.