So on a serious note, I have a buddy who is late 50s and owns a very successful restaurant. He has been divorced about 18 years.
We were eating and I told him I literally had nothing in the tank to even pretend to care about getting to know a female but still had guy needs. Even asking there name seems like to much emotional effort right now.
He immediately goes…that’s why I f hookers.
He then proceeds to give me his personal wisdom they kinda hit hard. He said “we are both successful guys and can get laid. That’s not the issue. The issue is we don’t wanna the hassle anymore. You don’t pay a hooker for sex. You pay them to leave.”
Hit me hard. Like I’m done here. Transaction complete. No fighting. No screaming. No dealing with her feelings. Just bye.
Kinda changed my view.