Social media and our children

#76
#76
My kids are the coolest kids in class (in daddy's opinion) and they could care less about social media. True story
My kids aren’t cool and they don’t care about social media either. One thing is for sure. People that constantly feel the need to take selfies and video themselves are very self-absorbed people. I’m going to guess they are the same people that piss me off at stores, in school parking lots, etc. because they act like they are the only people in the world with zero regard for others.
 
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Our moms knew we weren't riding our bikes around the block for hours. But if there were no broken bones, lacerations, or police calls then all was good.

The moms had a neighborhood spy network within bicycle range, too. You didn't really get away with anything in the old days ... even if you thought you did.
 
#78
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The moms had a neighborhood spy network within bicycle range, too. You didn't really get away with anything in the old days ... even if you thought you did.

Growing up in the sticks we didn't have the mom network, didn't really have bicycles either since they were pretty much useless. We had dirt bikes and knew every trail, hole or high spot in the fences and every gate that didn't get locked. Every now and then we'd get spotted somewhere we weren't supposed to be but it was worth it.
 
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If you're truly contributing to society you should be able to provide those for yourself. School as long a you desire? Not everyone deserves a PhD

Who collects and doles out all this money in your utopia? Who decides what each societal contribution is worth? Is there a tiered system when providing housing? Surely cars are now a right so which brand do I get? Will it have seat warmers?

Will you have to pay a monthly extortion fee to the car manufacturer to use the seat warmer? The weird stuff that passes as normal these days is amazing. I'd amplify that thing about a PhD to say that not everyone deserves, needs, or could legitimately earn any college degree. We've gone way off base on what is normal and what is perhaps not exceptional but earned with effort above the norm.
 
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My kids aren’t cool and they don’t care about social media either. One thing is for sure. People that constantly feel the need to take selfies and video themselves are very self-absorbed people. I’m going to guess they are the same people that piss me off at stores, in school parking lots, etc. because they act like they are the only people in the world with zero regard for others.

I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who feels that way about selfies. How did society get this way?
 
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Something I've been noticing over the past year or so is that I'm having problems with double vision when looking at a bird or high flying plane. I'm thinking we are spending so much time with devices and near vision, that divergence for distance vision is becoming a problem. I haven't discussed it with an optometrist yet .... have to do that soon; but just like kids destroying hearing with plugged in hearing devices, we might be screwing with vision, too.
 
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Social media harms kids by exposing them to reality sooner rather than later. They realize quickly that a select few (the most attractive, the wealthiest, etc) receive the lion’s share of the rewards (likes and shares) while their toil goes largely unnoticed. They see the world at an early age for what it really is: nothing but a bunch of crabs in a bucket who cannot cooperate to save themselves.

Thus the solution cannot simply be a reduction in screen time, it has to encompass a radical change that sees everyone treated as human beings worthy of dignity and fair compensation for labor.
I personally don't think it has anything to do with labor compensation, but rather young people comparing their lives with others. People only show the best aspects of their lives and often times flaunt it on social media for everyone to see how great they are and how great their life is (which is more often than not, a facade). Younger people compare themselves to them and think they are inferior, which leads to depression.
 
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I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who feels that way about selfies. How did society get this way?
It’s one thing to take a pic of yourself with another person but to take a bunch of pics of just yourself is bizarre. And then you have the idiots that die trying to get a selfie on the edge of a cliff or doing something else equally stupid. Natural selection.
 
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If you're truly contributing to society you should be able to provide those for yourself.

Agreed.

pj said:
Not everyone deserves a PhD.

Of course not. Everyone deserves the opportunity to see how far they can go though. That starts with properly funded public schools that aren’t reliant on property taxes.

pj said:
Who collects and doles out all this money in your utopia? Who decides what each societal contribution is worth? Is there a tiered system when providing housing? Surely cars are now a right so which brand do I get? Will it have seat warmers?

I’m not asking for that much central planning. Here’s a quote from Naomi Klein that illustrates my point:

Naomi Klein said:
“A term like capitalism is incredibly slippery, because there's such a range of different kinds of market economies. Essentially, what we've been debating over—certainly since the Great Depression—is what percentage of a society should be left in the hands of a deregulated market system. And absolutely there are people that are at the far other end of the spectrum that want to communalize all property and abolish private property, but in general the debate is not between capitalism and not capitalism, it's between what parts of the economy are not suitable to being decided by the profit motive. And I guess that comes from being Canadian, in a way, because we have more parts of our society that we've made a social contract to say, 'That's not a good place to have the profit motive govern.' Whereas in the United States, that idea is kind of absent from the discussion. So even something like firefighting—it seems hard for people make an argument that maybe the profit motive isn't something we want in the firefighting sector, because you don't want a market for fire.”

We have to shift the Overton window a little to the left so that it’s possible to call for basic human rights like health care and housing without the mob yelling about socialism and Mao and blah blah blah because the rich have programmed half the population to do their bidding.
 
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Do the math. Show your work. and then let's discuss further.

There’s no need for any one person to be a billionaire while others are unable to care for their children. Counting nonstop it would take 12 days to reach one million and 31 years to get to a billion. It’s obscene.

The math wouldn’t be as much of a problem if our resources weren’t wasted in pursuit of perpetual growth. At some point we have to admit that we live on a planet with finite resources and act accordingly.
 
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There’s no need for any one person to be a billionaire while others are unable to care for their children. Counting nonstop it would take 12 days to reach one million and 31 years to get to a billion. It’s obscene.

The math wouldn’t be as much of a problem if our resources weren’t wasted in pursuit of perpetual growth. At some point we have to admit that we live on a planet with finite resources and act accordingly.
Need? Bullshat. How much generational wealth, for their employees, do you think those billionaires create? How many jobs do they create? The incentive to do that isn't a pat on the back. Those billionaires are by far net positive. Jealousy of the super rich is so stupid
 
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It’s one thing to take a pic of yourself with another person but to take a bunch of pics of just yourself is bizarre. And then you have the idiots that die trying to get a selfie on the edge of a cliff or doing something else equally stupid. Natural selection.

I like taking pictures but would never dream of ruining a nice photo with my face.
 
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Need? Bullshat. How much generational wealth, for their employees, do you think those billionaires create? How many jobs do they create? The incentive to do that isn't a pat on the back. Those billionaires are by far net positive. Jealousy of the super rich is so stupid

We could function just fine without 26 people controlling more wealth than 4 billion people.

World's 26 richest people own as much as poorest 50%, says Oxfam

These people aren’t smarter than us. They don’t deserve to exploit us and throw a hissy fit if they don’t get every last lolly pop in the jar. We can chart our own path without their malignant presence.
 
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Agreed.



Of course not. Everyone deserves the opportunity to see how far they can go though. That starts with properly funded public schools that aren’t reliant on property taxes.



I’m not asking for that much central planning. Here’s a quote from Naomi Klein that illustrates my point:



We have to shift the Overton window a little to the left so that it’s possible to call for basic human rights like health care and housing without the mob yelling about socialism and Mao and blah blah blah because the rich have programmed half the population to do their bidding.
You keep using the word "deserve" like it's some universal truth. No one deserves simply by existing. You provide inputs to the system and get a certain output. If those are not sufficient then change the input. You don't increase the output simply because someone believes they're owed. We've agreed as a society to protect and provide for many who are unable. Outside of that small group the rest should figure out how to optimize their input. That may require sacrifices or delay satisfaction but that's how life works. We all experience it
 
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It's parental laziness, the electronics keep the kids out of their parents hair.
I don’t disagree with that. Kids from the 80’-90’s had Atari and Nintendo but couldn’t take it with them. But look no further than the parents/adults who have fallen victim to the need to constantly look down while sitting at a table of four. They are only doing what they see. Now kids walk around school halls with headphones in and live vicariously through reels of people they don’t know. A good portion of kids are socially awkward and don’t know how engage in conversations…the next generation will be one of technology and isolation.
 
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There’s no need for any one person to be a billionaire while others are unable to care for their children. Counting nonstop it would take 12 days to reach one million and 31 years to get to a billion. It’s obscene.

The math wouldn’t be as much of a problem if our resources weren’t wasted in pursuit of perpetual growth. At some point we have to admit that we live on a planet with finite resources and act accordingly.

It's tough to go through coveting your neighbor. I wish you well with your struggle.

You have benefited in countless ways from billionaire's efforts. The very device you use to communicate on this forum is proof of that. Additionally, the super wealthy have donated much in the form of charitable giving, trusts, foundations, and public gifts.
 
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I don’t disagree with that. Kids from the 80’-90’s had Atari and Nintendo but couldn’t take it with them. But look no further than the parents/adults who have fallen victim to the need to constantly look down while sitting at a table of four. They are only doing what they see. Now kids walk around school halls with headphones in and live vicariously through reels of people they don’t know. A good portion of kids are socially awkward and don’t know how engage in conversations…the next generation will be one of technology and isolation.

My parents got us an Atari when I was 14 or 15, it was fun but we only had 1 TV so if Dad was in the house the Atari was off plus dirt bikes were much more fun. My kids had the playstation and me and son played Tiger Woods quite a bit on it.
 
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1: You are underestimating your children, and especially this generation, who are one of the most aware generations I can remember. I'm loving gen Z.

2: If you cut your kids off from information (good luck with that) you are putting them at a disadvantage.

3: They know how to use this **** much better than we do. They grew up in it. Teach them to be SMARTER, and the difference between "virtual", and "reality". You don't own other humans, not even our children. They will do what they want.
 

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