Sinful or Righteousness?

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Gf and I have been talking about marriage in the near future. We are fairly religious and want to have a blessed relationship/marriage. If we want a real true marriage should we abstain from sex? Will being celibate make our relationship better once married, or should we keep having sex against God's word?


I hate to give it up, but I think it's worth the sacrifice to have our relationship/marriage to be right with God. Give me your thoughts.


I know some will make fun, but I want some advice.
 
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Ah, shiz! I want to say stuff but I think he's serus.

Tex, my worthless opinion is to do what makes the both of you feel better about the whole thing. If cuttin it off makes the vows more solid then put yourself in jimmy jail. Otherwise have fun and don't worry.
 
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rmsmith said:
Yeah, I'm thinking odds say Tex
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Not too long ago, Tex asked me about swapping gf's for a night. Maybe we should. That way, his gf would finally know what sex was, my gf would appreciate me even more and he and nurse would obtain their goal of not having sex with each other. Everyone would benefit.

J/K Tex.

You knew this was gonna happen.
 
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Behr1213 said:
Not too long ago, Tex asked me about swapping gf's for a night. Maybe we should. That way, his gf would finally know what sex was, my gf would appreciate me even more and he and nurse would obtain their goal of not having sex with each other. Everyone would benefit.

J/K Tex.

You knew this was gonna happen.
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Hmmmm Interesting proposal
 
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Marriage was invented when the average lifespan was 30 years. Just agree to abstain from sex with other people and get her a ring.
 
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TEX_VOLFAN said:
Gf and I have been talking about marriage in the near future. We are fairly religious and want to have a blessed relationship/marriage. If we want a real true marriage should we abstain from sex? Will being celibate make our relationship better once married, or should we keep having sex against God's word?


I hate to give it up, but I think it's worth the sacrifice to have our relationship/marriage to be right with God. Give me your thoughts.


I know some will make fun, but I want some advice.
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God doesn't condone gay marriage brah
 
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Honestly?

I don't get it. Why is this being discussed between the two of you? Who brought it up first? Obviously you have already had sex, is this a "forgive us" type offering? If sex is that important, it won't matter unless both are completely honest.....Completely honest, with your beliefs and commitment to them.

GA nailed it imo. There are some good people here and some "care" about you. But, this subject is not gonna get many serious responses here.

Wanna swap tomorrow night?
 
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Can you be best friends with a girl without having sex? Shouldn't the person you marry be your best friend? Sex is just a bonus, right?
 
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Only the both of you can answer that.

Spirituality is intensely personal. Talk it out. Encourage her to be brutally honest. You don't want either person to lie and then hold resentment against the other down the road.

Personally, I am not religious and neither is the girlfriend; so we bang whenever we have the opportunity.
 
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